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SpaceCase
Always Here,Never There...
Joined: Mar 15, 2005
Age: 18
Posts: 2669
Location: Mississippi,USA
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 Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 12:33 pm Post subject: What do you do when you are bullied/harrassed? |
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When I was little every time someone called me a name,I would call them an even meaner name and hit them REALLY hard.
Nowadays,it just depends on my mood. I got better insults and comebacks than most of the people who started it anyway. It's funny,actually.
I'd either laugh at them and walk away,I'd give them a piece of my mind,or I would beat them up. I have GREAT strength and speed for a girl my age,AND I have studied boxing,self-sefense,and martial arts for 3-4 years now.
I also don't take crap from people. When I hear someone talk crap about me or hear it from a trusted friend(although it usually has to be more than one person for me to act),I will walk up to that person and tell them off.
Of course,most of them are are pu$$ies,so they'll deny it or try to run away. Stupid people who can't bring their drama on amuse me.
-SpaceCase
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Tequila
Brewed in Britain
Joined: Feb 26, 2006
Age: 20
Posts: 6506
Location: Lancashire, UK
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| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 12:51 pm Post subject: |
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| I rarely get that. Occasionally I get people who hurl abuse at me. I ignore them - frankly, they're sad and desperate people. If they persist or they become a real threat they'll end up wishing they hadn't fairly soon. |
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Claradoon
Phoenix
Joined: Aug 24, 2006
Posts: 1303
Location: Canada
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| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 3:46 pm Post subject: |
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i cringe and run away and hide. i've been a scapegoat all my life. people are usually offended by me, but i don't know what i did.
right now, i'm awaiting a Dx appointment so i can get social skills training.
although - the issue may be complicated. i think that it's extremely rude for a total stranger to start talking to me. if i let that show, or do something sensible like walk way, they are so totally offended. so i don't know what to do at all. there's no right anwer.  |
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Revenant
Phoenix
Joined: Nov 25, 2006
Posts: 531
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| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 3:48 pm Post subject: |
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| If someone purposefully are being mean to me: I destroy them. |
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Dart
Deinonychus
Joined: Sep 14, 2006
Age: 19
Posts: 357
Location: Florida
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| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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| I used to call my mistreatment bullying, but I've come to realize that I brought it all upon myself by being annoying. |
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Pyth
Pileated woodpecker
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Joined: Dec 01, 2006
Posts: 193
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| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm not mistreated all theat much. Sure youv'e got your little idiots who seriously should be diagnosed with "a**hole disorder", but I usually just laugh and walk on. Everyone knows I can defend myself anyway. |
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Veresae
Putrescent And Flummoxed
Joined: Feb 25, 2006
Age: 20
Posts: 3181
Location: California
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| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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I haven't been bullied for a while (save on internet forums), but I got it every day in middle school. I outsmarted them.
Bully: "You're homo!"
Me: "Same? Same what?"
Bully: "I mean you're gay!"
Me: "No I'm not. I've never been attracted to a man before."
Bully: "Your mama's gay!"
Me: "If she was gay then how would I exist? I never would have been born."
Bully: "Well f*ck you!" [Bully walks off looking pissed, comes back the next day]
Bully: "Buck, buck, buck-aw."
Me: (Say nothing)
Bully: "Buck, buck, buck-aw. Chicken!"
Me: "You're the one who's clucking." |
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Starbuline
The Blues Are Brown.
Joined: Sep 26, 2006
Posts: 8232
Location: .....Russia
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| Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 8:58 pm Post subject: |
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| I usually hit them. |
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Revenant
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Joined: Nov 25, 2006
Posts: 531
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| Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 5:07 am Post subject: |
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Haha, great stuff Veresae!
I wish I had calm enough nerves to come up with something like that myself when stuff like that happens. I just get too provoked to think clear and the next second... BAM! Someones got a brand new broken nose  |
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SolaCatella
Phoenix
Joined: Nov 25, 2005
Posts: 694
Location: [insert creative, funny declaration of location here]
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| Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 6:07 am Post subject: |
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Once I got into high school, just about all bullying had stopped. It did happen in middle school quite often. I ignored most of it, laughed at a lot of the rest, and resorted to removing chunks of skin in the case of the most persistant. One loud, detailed accusation of every annoying thing one girl had done to me over the course of two years, followed by what I'm sure would have been an attempt at murder on her friend when that worthy child made an incredibly idiotic comment when I'm finished--really, who provokes a person who is clearly nearly over the brink?--pretty much brought most bullying to a cessation.
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RTSgamerFTW
4th Espada
Joined: Sep 28, 2006
Posts: 4793
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I never really got into a fight with my oppressors but next time they mess with me i'll beat them up until they bleed (as long as noone else is watching)
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Atomika
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Joined: Jan 10, 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 4:40 pm Post subject: |
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I defended myself from bullying with different methods at different times of my life. Nowadays, I don't have the problem at all, although I still don't have any idea of what they say of me outside of school.
In the middle school, I was a bit of a wackjob. At that time, I just got fed up with the bullying and I started to beat people up, beginning with my bullies. And mind you, I did not just use my fist to do it! I remember being in the counselors offiice and I was reading a book on how dictatorships would exploit a person's phobias for interrogation, and with the way my mental condition was at the time, I read it too soon. Bullying soon stopped, but I was then intoxicated with power and I grew more and more paranoid of other people. I was soon moved away from the school by order of my psychiatrist and psychologist and put under extensive medical care.
In the high school, I was never bullied. I attended a school for kids with ADD, Autism, Dyslexia, etc, for a time. I went back to public school, I was still never bullied, though I was still not anyone's favorite person. However, I developed what some would call an alter ego out of the desire to never again have to experience bullying (I'm a very unpleasant or intimidating person inside of school). I can still be a little paranoid but nowadays I can function normally in society. I also have a good number of friends, outside of school of course  . |
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sderenzi
Sea Gull
Joined: Jan 03, 2007
Posts: 206
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| Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 2:31 pm Post subject: |
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| I suggest if you're ever bullied to immediately destroy them, they'll only continue doing it and make life hell. Now as for your comments, yepo you're young. |
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Starbuline
The Blues Are Brown.
Joined: Sep 26, 2006
Posts: 8232
Location: .....Russia
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| Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Just hit them;it's easy! |
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KBABZ
Third Technician, Chicken Soup Machine Repairman
Joined: Sep 21, 2006
Age: 18
Posts: 6474
Location: Middle Earth. Er, I mean Wellywood. Wait, Wellington.
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| Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 4:29 pm Post subject: |
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I usually walk away (more like striding fast) or persist. Don't confuse persist with ignore, ignoring never works in most cases. Also, if you want a non-violent reward, act the victim and have plenty of witnesses who you can call up later. Also, the "Don't mention my name" tactic could work to your advantage, especially if it's a frequent bullier (probably too stupid to remember anyway). I don't think I've ever hit a bully because 1) I'm not strong enough, got bones of glass and paper skin and 2) They'll hit back twice as hard, maybe three if you're lucky.
I hate bullying, but it is true when bullying stops at High School, because the bullies are probably off getting stoned and smoking some weird stuff. Plus, think of how their future will be (Stop-Go sign, anyone?)
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