steviewonderau wrote:
I find it hard to believe that a male being shy is a positive in the cut throat world that we live in.
A male being quiet and shy is usually regarded by society as a weakness. Males are expected to make the first move and be able to deal with countless rejection from females.
Shy guys are unlikely to ever find suitable females because most(not all) females are usually attracted to strong, outgoing, attractive guys.
Shy/nice guys usually finish last because we usually have nothing to offer a female. The attractive, alpha male attracts most females.
Shy guys may either live lives of solitude or revert to the humiliation of online dating that is a lottery based on pure luck in the odd chance of meeting a female partner.
yes, they are alot of negative stuff about shy guys that why we should make a list of the more postive stuff about shy guy.
the reason alpha male gets women is because they approach women and know the right way to talk to women.
shy guy don't approach, which sadly something a man has to do to get a women.
nice guy and shy guys are not the same. some nice guy are shy, but alot of nice guys are not shy.