Becoming friends with a girl, and all its problems.

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Im a teen, and I have a slightly distant relative who I have a crush on, but she lives in another country, and I did text her on Facebook often before, but now she never texts me back, and Im thinking its because of the culture there and all its views on boy-girl interactions. Either that or she just doesn't get on much, which is typical of my relatives, for a variety of reasons. I don't like her much anymore since I don't even talk to her, but in my culture dating isn't all that much important at this age and when it does become important it becomes much more like planning for the future, rather than a means of meeting new people and enjoying oneself casually, and so it isn't all that big of a deal. But I still really want to see her next summer when I go to her country. And I want to be able to become friends with her, but I'm confused about a few things. First of all, I don't know my psychological motivations. Am I simply lonely because I have trouble making friends due to my Asperger's, or am I just a teen in love? But there's a problem with that, because I barely know her. Also, I don't know how to become friends with her, due to my lack of flexible social skills, and I don't know how to maintain that after I leave the country. And again, I think of this very casually, so its not like Im torturing my self over a girl I barely know, but I still think it would be cool if we were friends, because she's pretty cool, and really cute, and I would really like to make a friend.

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wtf

you like your own family? no matter how distant that is weird.

LOL! true that!

lol^

It's not weird if they are third or fourth cousins. There's no more risk involved than with anyone else.

You jerk! I'm trying to get help not have you laugh at me!

monsterguy your talking about f*****g your cousin,what did you think the reaction was going to be? also im pretty sure you said you were musslim, i highly dought a religion as sexually conservative as the musslim faith is will be okay with you f*****g your cousin. if you do this i fully asume you will be kicked out of your church.

Within marriage, yes it is okay with that. lol
In Muslim cultures, cousin marriage isn't uncommon, especially among second cousins - it is allowed in the muslim faith, remember this religion has emerged from a tribal society where cousin marriages were common. I am atheist but from a muslim family and it was suggested to me once to marry my second cousin in Australia lol, yuck.

Maybe that's why now we have a nation of ret*ds called ISIS.

First of all, she is your cousin.. Why would you even stress about her being your friend? youse are blood!
Secondly.. If you want to have a swing at your cousins mystery box id suggest keeping it dark... just my 2 cents...chop in mate, go for gold

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