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mssmjscss
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08 Apr 2014, 10:00 am

I've modified my AspieAffection account's profile--am I missing something, or what is it that I'm not doing right? I've only received 2 views with no messages beyond having fixed the profile's original information (or rather, the lack thereof).


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08 Apr 2014, 11:53 am

Seems to be very little traffic there in the first place. Not going to get many bites casting your line in a puddle.



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08 Apr 2014, 12:53 pm

I only entered my name there by way of supporting it when it was new. It's been years, and not one nibble. :lol:



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08 Apr 2014, 11:21 pm

are you sending messages??? Pay attention to the new members because they are less likely to be sleeper accounts. Rally you cant expect other aspies, especiall female aspies, to be more assertive than you.

Also, sometime it just takes a while to get a bite with online dating. It took me three months to get a message-back on okcupid but once I figured it out a bit I got more consistent results.


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08 Apr 2014, 11:46 pm

mssmjscss wrote:
I've modified my AspieAffection account's profile--am I missing something, or what is it that I'm not doing right? I've only received 2 views with no messages beyond having fixed the profile's original information (or rather, the lack thereof).


It's probably because no-one goes there.

Any guy in general, even the hot ones who get messages after 2 views are lucky anyway. Your photo is unclear. It doesn't make you stand out.



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09 Apr 2014, 12:30 am

I've only connected with one girl and I contacted her first. I'd recommend making the first move. And, have a thick skin.



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12 Apr 2014, 5:10 pm

Whew, I'm now dating 1 girl!

She's 19, white, and has black hair. That's about all I remember, though I could just re-read her profile to inform myself of more...or I could just ask her.


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12 Apr 2014, 7:07 pm

Cool! Have fun and realize you will probably have a few false starts, which is entirely normal.



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17 Apr 2014, 5:57 am

Yeah, you're using aspie affection. It's inactive and broken, and even if it were active, it's unpopular.

I guess there's no harm in trying but don't put your faith in the site. I think (last I checked, few months ago) there's no women even remotely close to salt lake city.


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17 Apr 2014, 7:03 am

mssmjscss wrote:
Whew, I'm now dating 1 girl!


Congratulations!