What can I do to get girlfriend-zoned?

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I am kinda seeing a guy( two dates and regular online chatting) . We met at a meetup, and started being attracted to each other. What can I do, besides being myself, to transition to the girlfriend-zone, with out forcing things?

We can not see each other much as he is short on cash, due to having intermittent work. For now, we just see each other at the meetup we both go to.

Guy is an aspie.

Eh, I think you need to make the right chirping noises. If he starts doing the mating dance you know you have made the right vocalisations.

I don't have much advice, but I just wanted to say that I totally love your thread title.

If he's okay with touching, you can probably take it in gradual stages, maybe a few seconds apart to give him time to figure out what time it is: get close, then put your boobies on him, then tell him you'd like to kiss him. That works on me, and even as thick as I can be I usually figured it out once a woman found an excuse to press her boobs up against me.

If he's okay with touching, but he doesn't want you to get close, then maybe stop there and just ask if he doesn't like you.

I've had women try to indirectly talk their way into being my girlfriend, but that usually resulted in me not understanding, them getting embarrassed and mad, and me figuring it out months or years later and kicking myself. Speaking from my experience, touching communicates most effectively. I can think of only one time a woman was verbally direct enough to make me understand, but sadly I was not attracted to her.

Just ask him out. That's what I would do.

Then again it doesn't always work.

Youtube is your best friend here. There are tons of great youtube videos on this subject.