Counterstrike: do you have SOCIAL imagination

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Do you have social imagination? (PLEASE read post before answering PLEASE)
Yes 41%  41%  [ 12 ]
No 52%  52%  [ 15 ]
who cares/show me the results 7%  7%  [ 2 ]
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21 Apr 2014, 8:55 am

There was this poll about whether Aspies kids have imagination or not. I believe the question there was not specific enough. Inventing a light bulb can be seen as imagination as well as talking to your imaginary girlfriend inside your head. So lets differentiate here.
I propose that AS people do not have social imagination, or very limited social imagination, based on my own experience. By limited I dont mean they don't do it often. I mean that the subject/depth are very simple and shallow.
For me, i may talk to someone im my head (even very often). but actually it's all a monolog without ever trying to imagine what the other person would think, how he would react and what he would answer. I call that shallow.

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21 Apr 2014, 9:10 am

I do have social imagination....and I 'rehearse' social situations in my head but just like you I don't think of what other person is going to say....and I only practice of what I'M going to say when those specific social situations comes up (which is probably why when other people say things....I don't know what to say next, because I didn't expected them to say that and when I say my 'scripted monologue', I talk endless....)

I can spend hours (without realizing it) 'rehearsing' of what I'm going to say, like 3 to 4 hours while pacing/walking back and forth my room

I also have 'fantasy world' in some parts of my inner universe, but that's another subject (since your only talking about SOCIAL imagination)



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21 Apr 2014, 9:28 am

Niche99 wrote:
I do have social imagination....and I 'rehearse' social situations in my head but just like you I don't think of what other person is going to say....and I only practice of what I'M going to say when those specific social situations comes up (which is probably why when other people say things....I don't know what to say next, because I didn't expected them to say that and when I say my 'scripted monologue', I talk endless....)

I can spend hours (without realizing it) 'rehearsing' of what I'm going to say, like 3 to 4 hours while pacing/walking back and forth my room

I also have 'fantasy world' in some parts of my inner universe, but that's another subject (since your only talking about SOCIAL imagination)


What you describe is something I've read a lot of NTs on other forums describing, they also write they rehearse scenarios/social situations in their head.

I don't do this, and I wonder if having good social imagination is one defining difference between NTs and people with autism. Among others.

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21 Apr 2014, 9:46 am

I have some difficulty with most social anything...what rehearsing?


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21 Apr 2014, 9:51 am

Niche99 wrote:
I do have social imagination....and I 'rehearse' social situations in my head but just like you I don't think of what other person is going to say....and I only practice of what I'M going to say when those specific social situations comes up (which is probably why when other people say things....I don't know what to say next, because I didn't expected them to say that and when I say my 'scripted monologue', I talk endless....)

I can spend hours (without realizing it) 'rehearsing' of what I'm going to say, like 3 to 4 hours while pacing/walking back and forth my room

I also have 'fantasy world' in some parts of my inner universe, but that's another subject (since your only talking about SOCIAL imagination)


Every world you said could be exactly from me. word for word (except from the fantasy world). really. also the pacing and walking. I think walking is also a sort of stimming.

I believe this sort of "rehearsing" is a very non-sophisicated way of social imagination.


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21 Apr 2014, 9:56 am

Definitely limited. Even making an attempt at it makes my head spinny and tired.



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21 Apr 2014, 10:15 am

You're kind of forced to "rehearse" ahead of time before a social interaction--especially if the social interaction involves some sort of interview. That takes imagination.



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21 Apr 2014, 10:19 am

whats a social Imagination?


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21 Apr 2014, 10:23 am

i think i do, i would roleplay in my head, for example,

Person: Emily, where do you go to school

Me: -insert school name here-

Person: oh, thats very good,

ect ect ect

i would think of possible topics another person would talk about and prepare an answer, this isnt a very effective tool but i guess it helped with some things.


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21 Apr 2014, 11:05 am

ZombieBrideXD wrote:
whats a social Imagination?


Well I innitially thought I have read about it somewhere but now I think I may as well have made it up :roll:. But i described what I mean. Maybe I'm refering to another term I have forgotten or I'm wrongly translating some term I read in german.
but there is an article on wikipedia which is somewhat related to what i meant.


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21 Apr 2014, 11:41 am

omid wrote:
ZombieBrideXD wrote:
whats a social Imagination?


Well I innitially thought I have read about it somewhere but now I think I may as well have made it up :roll:. But i described what I mean. Maybe I'm refering to another term I have forgotten or I'm wrongly translating some term I read in german.
but there is an article on wikipedia which is somewhat related to what i meant.



.......what?


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21 Apr 2014, 12:04 pm

I have fairly decent social imagination; I do often imagine how other people will react or what they will say (there is also the whole "intense inner fantasy word" going on).
The problem is that my social imagination often isn't very accurate; I tend to expect that people will react much more harshly or cruelly than they actually do (probably due to my low self esteem), which increases my social anxiety.


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21 Apr 2014, 1:48 pm

WerewolfPoet wrote:
The problem is that my social imagination often isn't very accurate; I tend to expect that people will react much more harshly or cruelly than they actually do (probably due to my low self esteem), which increases my social anxiety.


I don't know that that tendency is a product of low self-esteem, so much as the result of previous experience - it only takes once or twice for someone to tear you apart, before you realize that in any preparation for a conversation, you must prepare for the ugliest confrontation that MIGHT occur.

But yes, I always go in expecting the worst. And I'm always a bit shocked and caught-off guard (but relieved) if it doesn't turn out as bad as I was afraid it would.



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21 Apr 2014, 2:30 pm

I never rehearse for anything. I've tried but I just can't.

Even when I've had to do presentations or interviews and stuff like that, I just make it all up as I go along.

I don't really like to think ahead of time, if I'm totally honest.


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21 Apr 2014, 8:15 pm

babybird wrote:
I never rehearse for anything. I've tried but I just can't.

Even when I've had to do presentations or interviews and stuff like that, I just make it all up as I go along.


This is me as well. Also, I have no idea what social imagination is.



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22 Apr 2014, 7:21 pm

I think maybe I have TOO MUCH social imagination. Because things generally don't turn out the way I imagine them happening.



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