Confused about my "friend" saying she would miss m

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Chernobyl
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04 Jun 2014, 9:44 pm

Today I brought my yearbook to get it signed with her in mind specifically. She wrote a whole paragraph about how she will miss me since she's going to a different school next year. I'm just confused why she didn't ask me for contact info or write hers down. I know it might not have come to mind but I felt sad since it sounded like she wasn't planning on contacting me ever again. If it wasn't for my decision to contact her online tomorrow we probably wouldn't ever talk again. Back in middle school everyone that signed my yearbook put their number down even if they hardly knew me. I understand she would miss the two of us laughing in class together but I just find it really strange that she didn't give me any way to contact her.



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05 Jun 2014, 5:57 am

She probably didn't think of it, or thought you would ask her for it. The fact that "everyone else does it" doesn't mean much most of the time.



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06 Jun 2014, 9:58 am

Yep...even in this day and age, most women/girls expect the guy to make the first move.



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06 Jun 2014, 9:19 pm

Does she have a social media site? You could try adding her on there and see how things go.