dating do you recommend ( penpal ) ( marriage) ( free )

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high quality

i would like to meet a decent girl..... on a dating site... a

the one sites im considering is......

pen pal

marriage

high quality site.

i want a site where i can explain my self .....

must be free..

any recommendations... did you find any good site.....

i did find international soulmates.. (dont know how i find this )(good search) and pen pal ru ( its english ) ( google pen pal marriage )


well can you give any HIGH QUALITY sites............

I wouldn't recommend dating sites.

Women run the whole show in courtship behavior so the women on dating sites are often the ones that are not very good at operating the "real life" courtship "game," but may assume that society is accurate in saying that men make all the moves. And then usually assume that anything that goes wrong is the guy's fault for doing something "dumb/horrible."

Secondly they have a tendency to make a laundry list of "Man Traits" that look so very much like a Sears Catalog list of order form Man Options. Most of which they'd gladly live without when/if they met a man in person but make them "concrete" with their "online order form."
This can be very daunting.

Thirdly, they get lots of penis pictures and similar so they quickly can become very defense oriented (understandably). But this means you've gotta WOW them on the first message and wowing a woman is very individualized.
There is no right pattern. Not even generally.

Fourthlyish, human communication is only 7% the actual words used so texting/emailing has a 93% chance of going really wrong.


Go some place where you can (rationally) hangout often, so that the women there can get to know the real you, and the ice can melt rather than have to be broken.