When with friends and family I talk just as much as I listen.
However there are some people I will listen to more than I talk to them.
I've noticed that, sometimes, I end up being a 'load-off' for obsessive talkers.
I think that aspies aren't the only one's who like to go on and on and on and on and on about something - there are certain NT's who enjoy talking about themselves and things about their own life and manage to go and on and on.
This is what i've ended up becoming. I let N.T friends 'load-off' on me. If they want someone to go on and on with about nothing and mindless meaningless stuff no one would care about, I will listen - or fake listen, or half listen. Whatever.
I'm actually fine with it.
Is it a good or bad thing?