Anna_K wrote:
Maybe she only sees you as a friend in the gym and not as anything outside of that. I have a hard time figuring out what kind of friend someone sees me as. When I get to be good friends with someone in school, I am hesitant to invite them to anything outside of that or add them on social media because its hard for me to figure out if they just want me as a school friend or if they want to take it to the next level.
i tend to do this. I view people i met at school/work/gym to just be acquaintances and nothing more. I find their Facebook requests to be odd. but I ad them as not to be mean. it has come to be that one person I met from school considers me a good friend. o.O I don't understand why, but I also have trust issues and anxiety about drama being brought back to the original place ie work etc.
managing this is quite hard for me
so it may be she is worried too, if for say you two got in a disagreement it might make her going to the gym quite uncomfortable.
it may be like me she weighs benefits and what is more important. having a gym to go to vrs a possible new friend/bf or what ever you were seeking. I don't make work friends cause I fear losing my job over a possible fight. its also why i'd never date someone from work or a social club/gym.