androbot01 wrote:
First of all, don't refer to them as "chicks."
Also, women are not prizes to be won, property to be owned, or services to be rented.
First and foremost, women are
people, with feelings, fears, dreams and ambitions. The OP would do well to never forget that.
androbot01 wrote:
Mainly it's about getting them to talk about things in common. Not that I'm any kind of PUA ... Try to draw the person out by showing interest in what they say.
To the OP ...
Make eye contact, but don't stare (especially at anything below their chins). Acknowledge their feelings. Ask for clarification (even if you already know), and respond with a smile and a nod when you finally "get it".
It also helps to offer to buy their next drink or meal. Most important, handle rejection with grace - smile, laugh, say "See you around", and move away quickly. Other people will be watching, and if they see someone handle rejection by getting all mopey and whiny, word will get around faster than the flu virus in an elevator -- don't be that guy who reacts badly to rejection.
Never seem desperate. Develop a cheerful "Je ne sais quoi" attitude (it means "I do not care"), so that when/if she expresses disinterest, you can walk away without making things worse.
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