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Mishcana
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 12:16 am    Post subject: What does a kiss mean? Reply with quote

I'm kind of curious what a kiss means from a male perspective mostly, but also a bit from the girls.

Like, if a guy kisses you on the lips, what meaning does it have?
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gwenevyn
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 12:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are almost as many perspectives as there are people.

I like to get a good idea of what someone's perspective is, before any kissing occurs.

Unfortunately the situation you post could mean anything from "he thinks you're the best girl ever!" down to "absolutely nothing."
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 12:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This day and age we're living in
Gives cause for apprehension
With speed and new invention
And things like fourth dimension.

Yet we get a trifle weary
With Mr. Einstein's theory.
So we must get down to earth at times
Relax relieve the tension

And no matter what the progress
Or what may yet be proved
The simple facts of life are such
They cannot be removed.

You must remember this
A kiss is just a kiss, a sigh is just a sigh.
The fundamental things apply
As time goes by.

And when two lovers woo
They still say, "I love you."
On that you can rely
No matter what the future brings
As time goes by.

Moonlight and love songs
Never out of date.
Hearts full of passion
Jealousy and hate.
Woman needs man
And man must have his mate
That no one can deny.

It's still the same old story
A fight for love and glory
A case of do or die.
The world will always welcome lovers
As time goes by.

Oh yes, the world will always welcome lovers
As time goes by.

1931 Warner Bros
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 3:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

play it again, sam.
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calandale
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 4:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

gwenevyn wrote:

I like to get a good idea of what someone's perspective is, before any kissing occurs.

Unfortunately the situation you post could mean anything from "he thinks you're the best girl ever!" down to "absolutely nothing."


Presuming that there's a chance.
I've taken to kissing people a
great deal more than I ever would,
all as part of my 'act' while dancing.

Seldom on the lips (and the only person
that I really meant it for - was only on the
hands), but still, it's a situational thing. I
rather doubt that anyone would get the
wrong impression from them
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 4:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Usually it is triggered by sexual attraction, and also adoration in which case it fosters feelings of closeness and intimacy. Beyond that, I don't know.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is this... "kiss"? I know not whereof you speak. At least not the porno-tongue variety, anyway Sad
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 7:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you are on the recieving end and you find the kisser attractive it means you have succesfully negotiated (by luck or by design) all those horrible barriers that can make getting that close to someone you like seem almost impossible.

To me it means it's all relatively plain sailing from here, I can do the rest, that hard bit is over.

Socialising / flirting properly / small talk / dating etc is the hard bit.

Kissing / touching / not speaking / cuddling / sex etc. is the easy bit.

For me anyway.


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edal
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 7:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Asparval has it mostly right. If you get a kiss from a member of the opposite sex and a) you like it and b) they're cute then feel free to experiment.

Hint: Assuming the normal height ratio, a girl putting her arms around a guy's neck puts everything in just about the right position.

Enjoy!!

Ed Almos

P.S. Watch out in the Gulf states because there guys kiss guys and it's regarded as normal.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 8:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Asparval wrote:
If you are on the recieving end and you find the kisser attractive it means you have succesfully negotiated (by luck or by design) all those horrible barriers that can make getting that close to someone you like seem almost impossible.

To me it means it's all relatively plain sailing from here, I can do the rest, that hard bit is over.

Socialising / flirting properly / small talk / dating etc is the hard bit.

Kissing / touching / not speaking / cuddling / sex etc. is the easy bit.

For me anyway.


I thought that's the bit where things do get hard? Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 8:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well what can I say... there are very few people I'd kiss. I would never kiss a friend even if it's just friendship stuff... I know some that would, nothing wrong with it but it's just not my style lol.

I'd say I need to trust them 'almost' to the max, although not quite, because it's damn near impossible for me to trust someone to the max lol. It's quite hard for me to trust certain people and trust grows after some time with them, or perhaps not, but with a girl I'm trying to get with that trust comes remarkably quickly, and so far not to my misfortune, except for the first girl but that was only a couple of weeks and we didn't kiss anyhow lol. So nothing missed really... which is just as well.

If I'm with someone then tbh I don't mind if I kiss them after like 30 minutes of officially being with them, it don't matter to me... because I'm with them I like them, wouldn't offer what I have to someone on a personal scale if I didn't trust them a lot... so I'd have no issues kissing them. In this situation a kiss means a lot.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 8:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

HelloHello wrote:
Asparval wrote:
If you are on the recieving end and you find the kisser attractive it means you have succesfully negotiated (by luck or by design) all those horrible barriers that can make getting that close to someone you like seem almost impossible.

To me it means it's all relatively plain sailing from here, I can do the rest, that hard bit is over.

Socialising / flirting properly / small talk / dating etc is the hard bit.

Kissing / touching / not speaking / cuddling / sex etc. is the easy bit.

For me anyway.


I thought that's the bit where things do get hard? Laughing


Well certainly imo yes... the build-up challenge part I find easier, although certainly not easy... but when actually with someone I panic more lol which begs the question - why do I put myself in for this sorta thing when I panic more 'with' someone lol. But I do it anyway. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 10:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dammit, some people kiss,
and that's all it is. Like a hug
or a handshake. Don't count on
it meaning anything. Take it within
the whole context.

Then again, some people have sex,
and that's all it is.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 11:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

HelloHello wrote:
Asparval wrote:
If you are on the recieving end and you find the kisser attractive it means you have succesfully negotiated (by luck or by design) all those horrible barriers that can make getting that close to someone you like seem almost impossible.

To me it means it's all relatively plain sailing from here, I can do the rest, that hard bit is over.

Socialising / flirting properly / small talk / dating etc is the hard bit.

Kissing / touching / not speaking / cuddling / sex etc. is the easy bit.

For me anyway.


I thought that's the bit where things do get hard? Laughing


LOL, only if you are doing it right!
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 11:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

(thinks) so that's where i'm going wrong
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