greengeek
Deinonychus
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 Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:53 am Post subject: Ever had a friend not want to be a friend anymore ? |
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| I had two female friends who were my friends during my freshman year of high school but after they graduated that year they stopped wanting me to be their friends and they both did not want me to contact them. |
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Tim_Tex
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Age: 33
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:59 am Post subject: |
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Never had that happen.
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Todd489
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:19 am Post subject: |
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| No but I had the opposite happen. Seems like every time I make friends they end up doing something cataclysmically retarded and I don't ever want to see them again. |
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girl7000
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Location: Somewhere in the Atlantic
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:24 am Post subject: |
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This has happened to me when my depression has been bad. I thought friends were supposed to be there for you through both the good and bad times, but apparently not!
I was also bullied by boyfriends because of it.
And when I got my confirmation that I had AS, one person refused to be friends with me anymore. |
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aspie7120
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Joined: May 16, 2007
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:52 am Post subject: |
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I have had a lot of (temporary) friends who haven't kept in touch the next year, or I realized I no longer wanted to be friends with anymore . There also have been a lot of people who have tried to befriend me, but I was too quick to judge them and when I finally came out of my shell it was too late. I figure it is a good opportunity to start over  |
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sinsboldly
Free Range Aspie
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Age: 62
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:56 am Post subject: |
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| girl7000 wrote: | This has happened to me when my depression has been bad. I thought friends were supposed to be there for you through both the good and bad times, but apparently not!
I was also bullied by boyfriends because of it.
And when I got my confirmation that I had AS, one person refused to be friends with me anymore. |
I know what you mean! When I was drinking, there were people that didn't give it a thought, but when I 'came out' that I was an alcoholic, they wanted nothing to do with me! (and no, they weren't my drinking buddies!) |
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Anubis
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Yes, sure have. People who just weren't compatible with me or found me boring. I rejected the majority of requests to be my friend at high school, because it was mostly mockery, most of the kids there were loudmouthed, ignorant, retarded yobs with no sense of respect!
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IdahoRose
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 11:54 am Post subject: |
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| Happened to me all through my years of school. |
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onefourninezero
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 1:40 pm Post subject: |
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| I recently 'fell out of contact' with a few people who had been my friends. They became shallow popularity-obsessed two-faced arrogant.. not very nice people. They decided they wanted nothing to do with me because I'm too boring and unpopular. |
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Starbuline
The Blues Are Brown.
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 6:39 pm Post subject: |
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| happens to me all the time. i'm friendless except for soph and michaekl |
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username88
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When I was little I had this "friend" and we went over eachothers houses for a week or two and one day we set up a time to come over my house.. and his dad drove him up to my front yard, he came up to my door and told me he didnt want to be my friend anymore and went back home.
Oh and when I went to Washington I actually made these friends just cause I was wearing a black metal band shirt lol, and I lost them soon after |
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Cheerlessleader
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Lots of times. I hate people who do that. The least they could have done is tell me what I've done wrong, rather than just shutting me out of their lives altogether.
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Aphantos
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Happened to me, I dropped out of high school because I was depressed and my friend blocked me on MSN.
So now I've learnt my lesson, there is no such thing as friendship only games of give and take  |
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Aphantos
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Happened to me, I dropped out of high school because I was depressed and my friend blocked me on MSN.
So now I've learnt my lesson, there is no such thing as friendship only games of give and take |
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greengeek
Deinonychus
Joined: Jul 19, 2007
Age: 21
Posts: 360
Location: New York USA
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| Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 10:25 am Post subject: |
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| I thought I was the only one that had this problem. I found out that other people had this problem. My solution is to get over them. If anyone wants to, they can PM or eMail me. I would like to learn how to make friends. |
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