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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 12:24 am    Post subject: I wish I had a man that Loved me Reply with quote

My name is Kate Smith, I am 43 yrs old , and my email address is mnrkate@charter.net


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I want a real man who will drown me in his Love for Me. I would like someone to Love me. I do not be treated right at home. No one at home wants me or loves me. I would Like to be shown how to live a nice goed life.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 12:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe you should get a dog instead...they are loyal, good companions and love you unconditionally.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 12:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How are you defining "a real man"?
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 12:57 am    Post subject: How I Define a Real Man Reply with quote

A very loving kind of man. A man that gives some affection to me. A man that is open hearted and loving and warm and kind. A man is someone who makes you feel good, even when you are down. A man who would drown me in a world full of love. A man that would tell me good things to make me feel good. That is how I Describe a Real Man
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 12:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

shoot.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Take the best care of yourself first, and then you can take care of others as well as you care for yourself. Give what you take and have more to give than you take. Listen. Learn. Be light hearted. Be brazen but not pushy. Know when to back off and when to assist. Know who you are, what you believe in and make sure he is cut from the same cloth. Be adventurous, not reckless. But just be you!
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fivecents wrote:
Take the best care of yourself first, and then you can take care of others as well as you care for yourself. Give what you take and have more to give than you take. Listen. Learn. Be light hearted. Be brazen but not pushy. Know when to back off and when to assist. Know who you are, what you believe in and make sure he is cut from the same cloth. Be adventurous, not reckless. But just be you!


Precisely. A woman in pieces is attractive to no-one but predators. Work on your self-esteem, self-image and confidence. It's where it's at. I know it's cold where you live but you have to try and get out more.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:02 am    Post subject: A New Beginning Reply with quote

I am Sorry and I hope that I can do better. I wanted another chance at life. I wanted a new beginning. I thought I can have that new beginning and start all over again. I thought I would be deserving tht chance to have a new beginning and to change my environment so that I can be around positive kind of people. That would help me out a whole lot.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

KateSmith wrote:
That is how I Describe a Real Man


FakeMan23 wrote:
shoot.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kate,

Really, truly, "be careful what you wish for".

I have travelled the road you are on myself, perhaps not so bluntly, more subtly, (except perhaps at first) between the ages of 13 and 43, and it never, ever works...

Not even when I found someone, as desperate as I was for the same kind of reasons offering an whole new life, in an whole new country I honestly came to love...

*He* felt like a life sentence, and nothing would have been worth it.

Love doesn't work that way, in fact, I suspect it is ONLY when you don't need anyone for anything but themselves that you can truly love, and even them, there is no guarantee they will feel the same, or that you'll be able to handle it.

You are RIGHT to want a new beginning, and you can do it for yourself, and after you have, you may not even want, or need a man any more...

Good luck

M
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would be very careful. I think most men who say they want to take care of a woman, really just want to control them.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tortuga wrote:
I would be very careful. I think most men who say they want to take care of a woman, really just want to control them.


Big truth there Tortuga...I remember, years ago, in a very depressed mood, putting a very "I am helpless, vulnerable and need someone to look after me" profile on a dating site...I was INUNDATED with control freaks...and nothing else...

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zsazsa wrote:
Maybe you should get a dog instead...they are loyal, good companions and love you unconditionally.


Stuff the dog. If a dog could fill a void, humankind would die out. A little scientifically incorrect, but you know what I mean.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mechanima wrote:

Love doesn't work that way, in fact, I suspect it is ONLY when you don't need anyone for anything but themselves that you can truly love, and even them, there is no guarantee they will feel the same, or that you'll be able to handle it.

You are RIGHT to want a new beginning, and you can do it for yourself, and after you have, you may not even want, or need a man any more...

Good luck

M


Wise words.

Find yourself first Kate...then if you really want someone in your life you can work on that. But if your in a bad situation you need to get out of it first and learn how to prevent it from happening again, so that you don't end up in another bad situation.
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 2:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello Kate .Wanting love is something a strong will. I don’t think that anyone can tell a story that could possible put us off wanting someone. Needing someone is beyond having someone to talk to, sex, romance, or anything that makes life convenient. So there is little point in listening to those who think that it is possible to be happy by yourself. However, if you believe deep down that it might be possible, then it is surely possible.


The best way forwards is to work hard towards finding someone special, the same way that a sports man heads towards his goal with total focus. There are so many things in our lives that compromise us reaching our goal. For me it is the TV, it just consumes time and gives very little back.

Losing someone weight nice cloths would be a positive step in the right direction. Guys often care highly about looks. Sometimes I wish sometimes woman was like this, it would surely beets trying to be more NT. Hell I would look like alpha male beefcake on steroids. For losing weight, if you train like an athlete preparing for the Olympics, only then you can be sure you have done the best you can. Maybe in a few months time, you might be more attractive the ‘picture of you in fron’t of the car’. I found you very cute in that photo.
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