sounds like overall the opinion is that I SHOULD tell. BUT, I'm so worried they will treat him differently or be looking for things. At the last place, the childcare worker was so inept and kept taking notes about every little thing he did. I pulled him out because I felt this was unhealthy--it was as if he were being scrutinized like some kind of lab rat. I didn't like that at all!! !!
I just don't know!! ! I'm desperate for before care and I don't want this to NOT work.
There is a section for special needs and I feel almost dishonest in NOT saying anything, as if I'm ashamed of it, which of course I'm not--I just don't want any preconceived notions or baises before my son has even had a chance.
More opinions would be appreciated!! !! I can't decide and I only have until next Monday!
Experiences telling and not telling, PLEASE!
equinn