Joined: 23 Nov 2008 Age: 41 Gender: Female Posts: 446
05 Dec 2008, 10:57 am
Neither cause hair colour not much to do with what a person looks like. Though sexually i am attracted to blondes maybe a little ginger but also love dark hair and brown eyes.
Joined: 15 Oct 2007 Age: 36 Gender: Female Posts: 209 Location: Las Vegas, NV
05 Dec 2008, 12:19 pm
I notice that I'm more often than not attracted to men with dark hair, especially dark curly hair (which is what my fiance has). I also tend to be attracted to red haired men, but I've never dated one.
In all seriousness though I originally thought I was only attracted to blondes but as I've grown older I've found that it doesn't make a difference. My husband is a brunette though he shaves his head so it doesn't matter.
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Joined: 21 Oct 2008 Gender: Male Posts: 3,675 Location: Arizona
05 Dec 2008, 6:50 pm
I've always said that personality is the most important thing and I 'can't' find someone attractive without knowing them well first. Once you love someone for their personality, then you find them to be the most beautiful person in the world.
I stand by that view but I'll also say that I am learning why it is important to be physically attracted to your mate. I'm not actually physically attracted to my husband but I loved him for who he was and therefore found him beautiful. But it makes it a real challenge when we are going through some tough times where we don't like eachother all that much because the physical aspect isn't there to fall back on.
But as for what I prefer - I am really not attracted to natural blondes. Brunettes are good. Redheads generally aren't attractive to me either but the hottest boyfriend I ever had has flaming (almost neon) orange hair and it was seexxyy on him.
I like skinny/thin-framed 'girly-boys' lol. They can have muscle tone but cannot be bulky.
I also tend to think of myself as a teenager still and catch myself scoping 15 year old boys and thinking that they are 'my age'.