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thedaywalker
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| dont be such a pusy ignore them laugh at them be bigger better and smarten then they are. even if you just project total confidence and realy have nothing thats its based on theyre less likely to do something. should have done that from the start though if you start doing that now they'l see right trough it cause they know youre weak. not wanting to use violence is stupid they wont sue youre or anything and even if there stronger suprise will be on your side. the only thing you realy project is insucurity even in your picture. if they can get away with violence you can. people are way to carefull with wat they do. calling 911 or carying a freaking whistle will just make you more of a target "there's the geeky kid with the wistle. as long as you dont give sh** about them theyl be confused but agravated. buf up your upper body so they wont take the chance. its realy how you present yourself ever wonderd why they picked you to pick on. cause you let them,cause its easy. present yourself bigger and better and act in a way that they dont know how to respond to (confusing people works realy wel) and get youself buffed. |
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mgran
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My son had the same problem on his paper round, and ended up with a concussion after being assaulted. He's been practising his "assertive voice" and stance for future reference (he doesn't do a paper round any more though).
Basically he's been practising the good advice given above, saying in a loud clear voice, "back off," or "don't," or "leave me alone," but not in a scared voice, in a stern voice. He's also been practising karate blocks and deflection techniques. He doesn't believe in violence, and even when physically attacked he's refused to hit back (despite being physically capable of it).
My advice would be to find a friendly person to role play with.
Let us know how it goes. |
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protest_the_hero
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Change your look. No offence but you look like a bully's jackpot. I can't tell what gender you are. Either try and be more like a pretty girl or a tough guy, whichever fits.
I look like a normal (red haired and non-gangster, which are both bad here) kid and no one picks on me because I don't set off their gaydar or dork detecters(much).
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protest_the_hero
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Seriously, looks are everything for attracting bullies, especially those who don't know you. Don't blame the aspie traits either. I flap my hands and use geek slang in front of delinquents and we still get along. Your looks...I don't know what to say...I want to break your glasses lol...no offence.
I'm seriously trying to help. Go punk!
What to fix: Hair, glasses, fat, voice(I'm sure), everything.
It's easy to be an aspie geek and not get picked on(for me).
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mgran
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Protest the hero... you realise that you've just told the OP that they're fat, weird looking sexually, and you've speculated that they've got a weird voice, and stupid walk.
In other words, you're the guy in the white transit van calling abuse as you sail past.
You might want to break the OP's glasses, but I want to give you a good telling off and send you to your room. You might be aspie, but that doesn't mean you have to be rude to people. You don't talk to people like that.
To the OP... I also am not certain what gender you are from your photo, but I'm not about to imagine that I know all about you from one avatar. It could just be a picture that you picked because it's generic and not too revealing. You're entitled to that. You're not fat by the way, and there's nothing wrong with wearing glasses.
I'm really disappointed the treatment you've got on this thread, and I hope it doesn't discourage you too much. |
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protest_the_hero
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It just seems like an undeniable fact that when they don't know you, they go based on looks. I'm not being rude. I'm pointing out an obvious true cause for abuse.
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You actually did the right thing in that situation.
I recommend martial arts. it will help you confidence and in the long term help you defend yourself if you have to.
One of the things people frequently do is overestimate their capabilities. Running away if the 'exit' is clear is the easiest option therefore you win. There is absolutely no rules involved in fighting, don't get drawn in by false etiquette. If they employ that that is their problem not yours. Even if it means them getting their eyes gouged/scratched. One of the things I can't really teach you over these post is how not to struggle and to take control of the situation. That takes training, not something you can learn in a couple of weeks. people get overwhelmed because they struggle when they don't have to.
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| protest_the_hero wrote: | | It just seems like an undeniable fact that when they don't know you, they go based on looks. I'm not being rude. I'm pointing out an obvious true cause for abuse. |
Actually it can be less looks, but gernal body language. But it can be anything, sometimes it really is totally random.
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Take your fist, and stick it between his eyes. I can assure you if you hit him hard enough he wont be bothering you again.
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protest_the_hero
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| Michjo wrote: | | Take your fist, and stick it between his eyes. I can assure you if you hit him hard enough he wont be bothering you again. |
If they have more/bigger friends you should be careful who you piss off. Those guys travel in packs.
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