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Did any kind of bullying affect you PSYCHOLOGICALLY?
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poopylungstuffing
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 12:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yep yep yep....I was bullied like hell..I was even bullied by teachers..called an idiot and whatnot..i could go into a long-winded rant about the way i was emotionally abused by one first grade teacher in particular...
I was different from all the other kids in school so i was constantly singled out.
..i am not gonna bother to continue with this post..it would get too long..but yeah..i am not quivering in tears under ym desk at the moment..but it has adversely affected me plenty.
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 7:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah i was bullied to the point of depression and failing grades to i got to tenth grade when i had my growth spurt
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 8:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Psychologically? Confused
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 9:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have never been a sociable person, I avoid people and I don't care what they can think about me. I was bullied, but I never changed my way of thinking.

Maybe my psychological damage is being more antisocial than when I was a child.
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 9:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What does psychological mean?
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 9:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedMage wrote:
What does psychological mean?


I think pyschological damage reffers to mental or emotional damage, some traumatic experiences that left "scars" in your way of thinking
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 11:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was bullied in many ways all through school, and at 26 I still have issues with some of the stuff that happened. The worst of it involved people on my bus either on it or in classes that some of them shared with me. I still have dreams about riding the bus to this day. I'm slowly getting over these issues though, a few years ago I wouldn't have been able to talk about it at all.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 5:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I was 5, I had friends, all the way up until I was 7, and then we moved. Things went well for the first year or so, but I was always an emotional Kid, I WANTED people to know I was sad, so I cried. They'd always exclude me, and ridicule me, and at one point even throw rocks at me! All I could say through the whole of my childhood in my head was WTF? Now I have a bad rep as being cold, weak, and all that crap. Sometimes I wish I could move and start over -.-"

As for at home, My older sister would always ask: "Are you retarded?!" because I didn't know how to stack/unstack a dishwasher. She'd always say I lacked "Common sense". My parents would ask if I was stupid if I did something that "I" didn't necessarily think was wrong. all in all its been a bad experience, and its not over. Luckily theres a bright side to everything.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 5:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who knows? I was bullied horribly, and have some serious issues, but it's not clear that there is a direct relation. I suspect though that my anger is somewhat caused by this, and perhaps some of my depression as well.
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 8:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i was bullied between 7th and 9th grade, the only years i was in the school near my house. other "fellow" students liked to play fox hunting, and i was one of the foxes (literally, they gave us 1 minute of advance in the start of each recess, we couldn't wait the recess was over). most of them where stronger than me and i never talked back, some tough years...well, at least i realized how fast i could run. only a couple of guys really couldn't stand me, the others was only to go along (actually i now go along very well with one or two).
actually, i shouldn't even complain a lot, they where much easier on me then they where on others, there was one kid that was beaten the living sh** out of him every day, and I MEAN THE LIVING sh** (they even broke mirrors and cabinets with his head often). and there was no consequences for them, ocasionally a teacher would fill their ears but never a single one was suspended (at least not because of something in their class). the principal's policy was not to put his noose in kids business, and the rest of the teachers just sended the complains to him. the heads of the group where eventually suspended when they beat up a guy from another class (for pure joy, as usual) and the kid called his uncles (construction workers with 120 kg each) and they where teached some manners in front of the school. eventually, police came and the kid and the bullies where suspended (nobody helped the kid, and they even punished him).
when i switched school things got much better, i was never bullied again. i also got a little bigger and imposed more respect, and the ones that bullied me back there would take a step back if they saw running in their direction with my fists up (although i don't do that). still, i always get angry when i remember that. being so close to my house (and being my mother a teacher there) i'm aware of what's going on on that school. when i see stuff like that happen inside i get so angry!! once i saw a kid beating another just outside the school, and others more watching it, laughing. i stoped the car, opened the window and pulled my ugly face out...god, i wished he was older...his so-called friends dispersed quicker than flies. but sh** keeps happening everyday in that school Sad
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 9:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SamuraiSaxen wrote:
I think pyschological damage reffers to mental or emotional damage, some traumatic experiences that left "scars" in your way of thinking

I don't understand.
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedMage,

Have people pissed you off to the point where years later you are still pissed?
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 10:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kids used to call me fat. In all honestly I was a bit of a chunker with no social graces. But still, it caused me to starve myself in the 7th and 8th grade, I was so sick of not looking good (in my mind at least). I ended up losing 30 pounds from a combination of DDR and not eating... but it's not something I'd recommend. Right now I'm a normal weight and I still think I'm fat...
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 12:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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RedMage,

Have people pissed you off to the point where years later you are still pissed?

I know i have.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think most people are affected psychologically by bullying. In 8th grade (4 years ago), I was e-bullied via AIM before it even became popular by three different ***holes (two of which are in jail now). I was only bullied in middle school though. Nowadays in High School, the most I really get is people laughing at me whenever I answer a question in class.
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