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The_Face_of_Boo
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 12:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Surya wrote:
Yes I can say/admit I am attracted to someone
Would I approach them and tell them.. no
Only people I can approach are professionals or people in the service industry - I know basically what they are going to say, they hardly ever change the rules.. know what I mean?

I have thought about this a lot lately and I have never approached an individual that was not working in some place I needed something from
every person I have ever known as a 'friend' has approached me - usually soon after they realise their mistake and move on or just can't deal
Any guy I have been with has approached a person I knew, or me if they knew me well enough..

I get approached by randoms on the street.. to often and some ask me very strange things... Shocked


The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
..... thought I was kind of a gay or even sexually deficit due to the fact that that who makes little to no reaction (suck as whistling , or 'wow' , or O_O or *drooling* ) when some smoking hot (guy) passes by , sometimes they cant' believe when I say that didn't notice them.

Edited your quote to suit me, cause it kind of works for me..



I edited mine because it was full of typos. I am sure I typed this while I was distracted by something else, what a shame.

edited:

School colleagues always thought I was kind of a gay or even sexually deficit due to the fact that I make little to no reaction (such as whistling , or 'wow' , or O_O or *drooling* ) when some smoking hot girl passes by , sometimes they cant' believe when I say that didn't notice her.

Deep down , I always have this attitude : "why should I give her all this attention if I mean little to her?" - anyone thinks like this?

I overheard once a girl asking my friend whether I am gay or not.

A colleague asked me once if I can have erections.
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 1:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I edited mine because it was full of typos. I am sure I typed this while I was distracted by something else, what a shame.

edited:

School colleagues always thought I was kind of a gay or even sexually deficit due to the fact that I make little to no reaction (such as whistling , or 'wow' , or O_O or *drooling* ) when some smoking hot girl passes by , sometimes they cant' believe when I say that didn't notice her.

Deep down , I always have this attitude : "why should I give her all this attention if I mean little to her?" - anyone thinks like this?

I overheard once a girl asking my friend whether I am gay or not.

A colleague asked me once if I can have erections.


I think you misunderstood me, I seem to confuse people a lot, I got used to that.

What you said, sounds a lot like stuff I have done and said. Except for what I had edited.
You used 'her' and 'girl' ..
that doesn't work for me. I am female, and straight.. and what most people consider a smoking hot male (the silverback types) do nothing for me.
So I removed the girl and replaced it with guy..

as for why I do not approach - makes me ill..
and my deep down attitude.. it may be similar, I do not think so though..
mine would read kinda like
"why should I give him attention if he is just going to expect me to act/be like the others?"

Make sense now?
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 2:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No, but the rejection is the hard part. Sometimes you need to go after the right girl, a girl who you see eye to eye with in many ways.
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 2:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Northeastern292 wrote:
No, but the rejection is the hard part. Sometimes you need to go after the right girl, a girl who you see eye to eye with in many ways.

Ok, so then when is it that a girl and guy see many things eye to eye, and the difference of the
girl being 'just one of the guys' gets worked out?
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PostPosted: Sat Jul 31, 2010 6:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Surya wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I edited mine because it was full of typos. I am sure I typed this while I was distracted by something else, what a shame.

edited:

School colleagues always thought I was kind of a gay or even sexually deficit due to the fact that I make little to no reaction (such as whistling , or 'wow' , or O_O or *drooling* ) when some smoking hot girl passes by , sometimes they cant' believe when I say that didn't notice her.

Deep down , I always have this attitude : "why should I give her all this attention if I mean little to her?" - anyone thinks like this?

I overheard once a girl asking my friend whether I am gay or not.

A colleague asked me once if I can have erections.



I think you misunderstood me, I seem to confuse people a lot, I got used to that.

What you said, sounds a lot like stuff I have done and said. Except for what I had edited.
You used 'her' and 'girl' ..
that doesn't work for me. I am female, and straight.. and what most people consider a smoking hot male (the silverback types) do nothing for me.
So I removed the girl and replaced it with guy..

as for why I do not approach - makes me ill..
and my deep down attitude.. it may be similar, I do not think so though..
mine would read kinda like
"why should I give him attention if he is just going to expect me to act/be like the others?"

Make sense now?



lol , no , I totally understood you were editing the post to fit your gender ,but your quote made me re-read my own post again and I noticed all those typos I made....

So don't worry....


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