Do looks even matter for Aspies?

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Daredevil-Aspie
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 11:18 pm Post subject:

Looks are important to men. I am a man. She needs to be 7.8 + in looks for me. Far as personality traits go, she needs to be assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

russian
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 12:13 am Post subject:

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assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

That sounds like my worst nightmare.

Daredevil-Aspie
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 12:51 am Post subject:

russian wrote:

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assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

That sounds like my worst nightmare.

Timid, insensitive, dumb, and conservative must be your greatest dream.

Bethie
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:36 am Post subject:

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

Looks are important to men. I am a man.

She needs to be 7.8 + in looks for me.

Far as personality traits go, she needs to be assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

I cannot WAIT for the day when people don't seek to speak for their entire sex.
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emlion
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:37 am Post subject:

Bethie wrote:

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

Looks are important to men. I am a man.

She needs to be 7.8 + in looks for me.

Far as personality traits go, she needs to be assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

I cannot WAIT for the day when people don't seek to speak for their entire sex.

LOL. Good luck being alive for that.

Joker
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 1:06 pm Post subject:

emlion wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

Looks are important to men. I am a man.

She needs to be 7.8 + in looks for me.

Far as personality traits go, she needs to be assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

I cannot WAIT for the day when people don't seek to speak for their entire sex.

LOL. Good luck being alive for that.

That will never happen its sad but its the truth

Wyborne
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:38 pm Post subject:

Bethie wrote:

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

Looks are important to men. I am a man.

She needs to be 7.8 + in looks for me.

Far as personality traits go, she needs to be assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

I cannot WAIT for the day when people don't seek to speak for their entire sex.

I'd rather see the day where people don't claim to know everything about the opposite sex.

Daredevil-Aspie
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:26 pm Post subject:

Bethie wrote:

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

Looks are important to men. I am a man.

She needs to be 7.8 + in looks for me.

Far as personality traits go, she needs to be assertive, compassionate, and intelligent. And devious.

I cannot WAIT for the day when people don't seek to speak for their entire sex.

I said for me. Confused

emlion
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:28 pm Post subject:

you said to men.

Daredevil-Aspie
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:30 pm Post subject:

Looks are important for men. Now I can't say which looks are important for what man. But generally, that's the case. And if you find some dude who says looks aren't important, he's an exception, not the rule.

dkittens
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 6:11 pm Post subject:

My girlfriend is not that attractive at all but I still love her because of what she is on the inside. I can care less about her looks. _________________ Your Aspie Score: 176 of 200 - You are very likely an Aspie Your neurotypical score: 20 of 200 Not diagnosed - yet (In process)

Bethie
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 7:11 pm Post subject:

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

Looks are important for men. Now I can't say which looks are important for what man. But generally, that's the case. And if you find some dude who says looks aren't important, he's an exception, not the rule.

I like burritos, and I have a vagina.
Therefore, vagina owners de facto love burritos,
and if they don't....pft. They're losers.

Laughing

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