Simonono
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 Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 2:00 pm Post subject: Re: Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out |
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| computerlove wrote: | | Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out. |
I don't get it, go out where?
But anyways, your Avatar is hilarious  |
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Chronos
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 2:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Aspie1 wrote: | | I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy". |
Or maybe she's just busy and can't find the time to go out with you. It does happen. People get work schedules they can't work around and such, so if you ask her out and she says she is busy, suggest another time. If that doesn't work for her either, give her your number and say "Well here's my number, give me a call when you have some time and maybe we can get some coffee or something."
I wouldn't just assume that she's not interested because she shot you down once or twice. If she doesn't call, then you can assume she isn't interested. |
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mra1200
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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| Chronos wrote: | | Aspie1 wrote: | | I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy". |
Or maybe she's just busy and can't find the time to go out with you. It does happen. People get work schedules they can't work around and such, so if you ask her out and she says she is busy, suggest another time. If that doesn't work for her either, give her your number and say "Well here's my number, give me a call when you have some time and maybe we can get some coffee or something."
I wouldn't just assume that she's not interested because she shot you down once or twice. If she doesn't call, then you can assume she isn't interested. |
No. If you're truly knocked her socks off, she WILL ABSOLUTELY find the time to go out with you. If you've only merely piqued her curiosity (or less), then what you're saying may be true. If you've not stood out one bit from any other guy she could choose from, its highly unlikely she will ever go out with you.
Oh, and forget giving her YOUR number. She isn't going to call.
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The_Face_of_Boo
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 3:33 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree with mra, if she's really busy but really interested , she will at least re-schedule the outing "ie. I am busy tomorrow , what about Saturday?" to her terms or give the guy the option ie. "I am really busy tomorrow, any better day?" , but if she says just "I am busy" then this should be a farewell. |
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computerlove
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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| Aspie1 wrote: | | I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy". |
*thumbs up*
thanks, that's what I was trying to say, I'll go ahead and add this to the first post with your permission.
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 5:08 pm Post subject: |
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| I blame your costume for this misunderstanding. |
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Esther
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 5:13 pm Post subject: |
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| The_Face_of_Boo wrote: | | I blame your costume for this misunderstanding. |
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CoalBogey
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 5:22 pm Post subject: |
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| mra1200 wrote: | | Chronos wrote: | | Aspie1 wrote: | | I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy". |
Or maybe she's just busy and can't find the time to go out with you. It does happen. People get work schedules they can't work around and such, so if you ask her out and she says she is busy, suggest another time. If that doesn't work for her either, give her your number and say "Well here's my number, give me a call when you have some time and maybe we can get some coffee or something."
I wouldn't just assume that she's not interested because she shot you down once or twice. If she doesn't call, then you can assume she isn't interested. |
No. If you're truly knocked her socks off, she WILL ABSOLUTELY find the time to go out with you. If you've only merely piqued her curiosity (or less), then what you're saying may be true. If you've not stood out one bit from any other guy she could choose from, its highly unlikely she will ever go out with you.
Oh, and forget giving her YOUR number. She isn't going to call. |
yep. get her number, call her right then and there, and get her to type your name into her phone so you don't come up as an unknown number. also call her back on Sunday, unless Sunday is 6 days away.
something like that. |
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Stitch your name and home address into her knickers, and attach a stamp.
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Esther
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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| Moog wrote: | | Stitch your name and home address into her knickers, and attach a stamp. |
If you're able to access her knickers, I'd say you're in good shape, Mr. Moog. |
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computerlove
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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| The_Face_of_Boo wrote: | | I blame your costume for this misunderstanding. |
I blame meth
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| Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 8:20 pm Post subject: Re: Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out |
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| computerlove wrote: | Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.
EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:
| Aspie1 wrote: | | I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy". |
sticky this please. |
Ok, that makes much more sense. "she will go out" was an incomplete sentence. |
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bewarethebob
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| Lene wrote: | | Quote: | lol @ "why?"  |
+2
As a rule of thumb, it's hardly a profound statement.
As an actual rule, where's your proof that it's accurate enough to warrant bold letters, underlining and stickying. |
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| I wonder if they make fortune cookies with a big enough paper. |
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nick007
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| Posted: Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:42 am Post subject: Re: Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out |
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| computerlove wrote: | Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.
EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:
| Aspie1 wrote: | | I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy". |
sticky this please. |
What if the person is playing hard-to-get 
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