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CockneyRebel
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hale_bopp
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I'm going to answer this question with a hell yes, but the person has obviously moved onto bigger and better things, and i'm just going to have to deal with it.
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janicka
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| I miss my friend, B. We're both married, so I don't want to get too specific. We started seeing each other while his wife was out of town. He went out of town to try to reconcile with his wife. Anyway, I feel like he is my soul mate, but I don't know how to tell him about it or even act around him. I feel like I should tell him something about how I feel. All our dates ended really awkwardly because I didn't really know how to say goodbye appropriately. I just got in my car and drove away. I miss him so much and I want to start seeing him again when he comes back to town (with or without wife). |
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sociable_hermit
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| hale_bopp wrote: | | ...the person has obviously moved onto bigger and better things... |
I don't believe that for one moment.
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hale_bopp
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| sociable_hermit wrote: | | hale_bopp wrote: | | ...the person has obviously moved onto bigger and better things... |
I don't believe that for one moment. |
Any reason?
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sociable_hermit
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Erm, well... 
You sound really nice, so I doubt if they've moved on to anything better. "Made a big mistake" sounds much more likely 
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hale_bopp
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What?
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sociable_hermit
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It sounded as though you were putting yourself down by saying they've "moved onto bigger and better things".
You also seem upset that your feelings are being ignored and their affection has been withdrawn.
Your posts are always really thoughtful and from the little I know, I think you're great. I'm not sure they'll find anyone or anything 'better'. If someone is ignoring you in pursuit of other things, they are the ones missing out. I think they've made a mistake which they'll end up regretting.
I'm sorry if this sounds patronizing or overly-familiar - I don't find it easy to phrase compliments. I just wanted to say that you seem nice and I don't understand why anyone would upset you like that. But yeah, I don't really know much about it, so maybe I'm making too many assumptions and should mind my own business! Sorry..
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phoenixjsu
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| sociable_hermit wrote: | Erm, well...
You sound really nice, so I doubt if they've moved on to anything better. "Made a big mistake" sounds much more likely |
That was a very nice thing that you said hermit. There are a few bitter jerks running around the board that like to think of her as a big pink bullseye. |
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hale_bopp
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| sociable_hermit wrote: | It sounded as though you were putting yourself down by saying they've "moved onto bigger and better things".
You also seem upset that your feelings are being ignored and their affection has been withdrawn.
Your posts are always really thoughtful and from the little I know, I think you're great. I'm not sure they'll find anyone or anything 'better'. If someone is ignoring you in pursuit of other things, they are the ones missing out. I think they've made a mistake which they'll end up regretting.
I'm sorry if this sounds patronizing or overly-familiar - I don't find it easy to phrase compliments. I just wanted to say that you seem nice and I don't understand why anyone would upset you like that. But yeah, I don't really know much about it, so maybe I'm making too many assumptions and should mind my own business! Sorry.. |
No, you actually made me feel better.
| Quote: | | That was a very nice thing that you said hermit. There are a few bitter jerks running around the board that like to think of her as a big pink bullseye. |
No, they don't. They probably got annoyed at something stupid I said. But that does apply with me on other sites.
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Ah, good - I'm pleased.
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phoenixjsu
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| hale_bopp wrote: | | Quote: | | That was a very nice thing that you said hermit. There are a few bitter jerks running around the board that like to think of her as a big pink bullseye. |
No, they don't. They probably got annoyed at something stupid I said. But that does apply with me on other sites. |
Well, yeah. Now that you mention it... I would say you just have a way of being very forceful and strait up with how you feel. Not always bad, but some people just can't deal with it. |
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I still miss my nan, even though it's been 7 years. 
She looks down on me.
I used to talk to her, instead of my mum. She knew I had AS, and understood me.
1935 - 1999 RIP.
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janicka
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| Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 7:08 pm Post subject: |
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I used to talk to her, instead of my mum. She knew I had AS, and understood me.
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It's good that you had someone who understands you. I never had that |
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