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violentcloud
Hyphenophile
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Location: Cambridge
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I miss my LouMoo, can't wait to see her in London when we hang the work in our gallery.
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MADDuck
Phoenix
Joined: Jun 19, 2007
Posts: 779
Location: The City
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| Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 11:47 pm Post subject: |
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I miss myself, I never got to know myself very well.
I hate myself.
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phoenixjsu
Phoenix
Joined: May 15, 2006
Posts: 3578
Location: The DEEP South
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| Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 12:05 am Post subject: |
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| EvilKimEvil wrote: | Yes, I miss someone really badly right now. He just left my place to go back to his home in the city across the bay because he has a job that requires him to get up very early.
This guy is the closest to a soul-mate I've ever met. He makes me really, really happy. He talks about all kinds of exciting long-term plans for us. And he wants to see me very often. And yet he hesitates to call me his girlfriend or say that he loves me. We've only known each other for 2 weeks, so maybe that's normal?
This is torture because there are plenty of guys I know far less well and feel far less connected to who pursue me far more aggressively and would love to call me their girlfriend after two weeks of hanging out. I don't get it.
Is it a good thing that I like this guy better than these more aggressive ones? Is he shy? Or sane? Or does he just not like me as much as I like him? I have no idea if I'm wasting my time or if I've finally found the love of my life, and it's completely driving me crazy.
When he's here, I keep thinking I may get some kind of sign to help me figure the whole thing out. When he's gone, I just wonder how he'll act the next time I see him, how I should act and what I should say the next time I see him, or if I'll even see him again. 
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It sounds like you have a very good thing going. I wouldn't worry about the whole title of "girlfriend" or "I love you" thing yet. At two weeks, it's not a problem. Most normal guys wouldn't say something like that so quickly. It's a good que that he talks about the potential future. It would seem that he hopes there is a next time. It sounds like he's a pretty responsible guy, minding the time and all for work and such. Don't worry about the guys that aggressively pursue either. If they were the right ones you'd probably be with them. You're looking for the best match for you and it sounds like the one you have is great so far. Congrats. I hope that all works out.
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EvilKimEvil
zoo-music girl
Joined: Sep 27, 2007
Posts: 3040
Location: highway to hell
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| Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 12:53 am Post subject: |
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| phoenixjsu wrote: | | EvilKimEvil wrote: | Yes, I miss someone really badly right now. He just left my place to go back to his home in the city across the bay because he has a job that requires him to get up very early.
This guy is the closest to a soul-mate I've ever met. He makes me really, really happy. He talks about all kinds of exciting long-term plans for us. And he wants to see me very often. And yet he hesitates to call me his girlfriend or say that he loves me. We've only known each other for 2 weeks, so maybe that's normal?
This is torture because there are plenty of guys I know far less well and feel far less connected to who pursue me far more aggressively and would love to call me their girlfriend after two weeks of hanging out. I don't get it.
Is it a good thing that I like this guy better than these more aggressive ones? Is he shy? Or sane? Or does he just not like me as much as I like him? I have no idea if I'm wasting my time or if I've finally found the love of my life, and it's completely driving me crazy.
When he's here, I keep thinking I may get some kind of sign to help me figure the whole thing out. When he's gone, I just wonder how he'll act the next time I see him, how I should act and what I should say the next time I see him, or if I'll even see him again.
Oops. Sorry for the rant. |
It sounds like you have a very good thing going. I wouldn't worry about the whole title of "girlfriend" or "I love you" thing yet. At two weeks, it's not a problem. Most normal guys wouldn't say something like that so quickly. It's a good que that he talks about the potential future. It would seem that he hopes there is a next time. It sounds like he's a pretty responsible guy, minding the time and all for work and such. Don't worry about the guys that aggressively pursue either. If they were the right ones you'd probably be with them. You're looking for the best match for you and it sounds like the one you have is great so far. Congrats. I hope that all works out.
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Ah, thanks. Yes, that makes a lot of sense. He probably is a lot more responsible and gentlemanly than those more aggressive guys, or better for me at least. I like a laid-back, quiet type.
It seems like a once-in-a-lifetime sort of thing, so much better than anything I've experienced before that it naturally causes an intense fear of failure like nothing I've experienced before.  Funny how that works. |
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phoenixjsu
Phoenix
Joined: May 15, 2006
Posts: 3578
Location: The DEEP South
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 5:21 am Post subject: |
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| EvilKimEvil wrote: | | It seems like a once-in-a-lifetime sort of thing, so much better than anything I've experienced before that it naturally causes an intense fear of failure like nothing I've experienced before. Funny how that works. |
I wouldn't worry too much. There are a lot of great signs on both your part and his in what little you've said. It's still pretty early but so far this sounds good.
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Pikachu
CB operator, Callsign 26-TM-082
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Joined: Mar 25, 2005
Age: 26
Posts: 1489
Location: On top of a hill next to a golf course (0 golf balls have broken the back windows on the house)
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:12 am Post subject: |
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I miss...... I don't know who I miss but I miss them
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Sforzi
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: May 23, 2008
Posts: 51
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| Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 3:43 pm Post subject: |
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| I miss my James. But I see him tomorrow! Yay! |
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EvilKimEvil
zoo-music girl
Joined: Sep 27, 2007
Posts: 3040
Location: highway to hell
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Yes, I miss someone.
I wish I didn't have these instincts that cause me to develop strong feelings so fast.
And every time I get my heart broken it hurts so much worse than the last time.
Of course I always get some songs out of it. But I really think there are more interesting things to write about.
Why is it that I cannot let go of this dream of meeting the right man to settle down with? Why can I not just accept a life of solitude? Why does it have to take so long to get someone out of my head?
Is there a way to change yourself so you don't fall in love so fast?
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Pugly
Man-child diligently becoming a Dude, man
Joined: Jan 10, 2005
Age: 26
Posts: 2567
Location: Wisonsin
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| Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 4:40 am Post subject: |
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Wow Kim. You describe some things I'm always trying to answer myself.
Everyone I've come to love* I've fallen for them very fast, and when the inevitable rejection comes... like you said... it hurts more each and every time. Each time it feels like I'm getting to the one true great relationship... something amazing that few people ever experience.
Maybe I'm just delusional...
Also, I have this yearning to be with someone... if I didn't care about it... and like you say "just accept a life of solitude" life would be so much easier for me.
It falls into every interaction I have with women... out of the corner of my mind there is a small glimmer of hope that maybe I could be with her. Maybe...
When I was in a relationship for a brief moment... I noticed a change in my very nature... I was fulfilled.... complete somehow. Everything was right... I had someone to share my life with...
I've tried to write about this yearning I have... but I just can't express it...
* I use the term love... but I really don't know what to call it...
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phoenixjsu
Phoenix
Joined: May 15, 2006
Posts: 3578
Location: The DEEP South
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| Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 4:51 am Post subject: |
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| EvilKimEvil wrote: | Yes, I miss someone.
I wish I didn't have these instincts that cause me to develop strong feelings so fast.
And every time I get my heart broken it hurts so much worse than the last time.
Of course I always get some songs out of it. But I really think there are more interesting things to write about.
Why is it that I cannot let go of this dream of meeting the right man to settle down with? Why can I not just accept a life of solitude? Why does it have to take so long to get someone out of my head?
Is there a way to change yourself so you don't fall in love so fast? |
It's okay to miss someone. That's life. And you'll meet someone better eventually... We always do.
It's not just about mourning loss, it's about how much you appreciate the next person when they show up in your life.
I miss someone far removed now. But every time I meet someone new, I've worked things out a little more and I do a better job. I always love the new person that much more. Yet by being a better person each time around, I feel like I'm also honoring the person long removed. Were it not for her, I would have never though I needed to improve. I would have never sought to improve.
If we truely care about someone, they should make us become better people... even after their departure. It all depends on how you accept their role in your life. |
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MishLuvsHer2Boys
Proud Mom to 2 boys
Joined: Oct 09, 2004
Posts: 2113
Location: Canada
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| Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 1:54 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm missing a friend of mine. |
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Zara
is a Large Hadron Collider
Joined: Jun 24, 2007
Age: 27
Posts: 1542
Location: Deep Dungeon, VA
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| Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 11:09 pm Post subject: |
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I miss the girl I knew when things started. It was fun, adventurous and I could be at ease with her.
I don't know what happened to her. It's like she's not there anymore. Now I get nervous, and insecure around her.
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Pikachu
CB operator, Callsign 26-TM-082
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Joined: Mar 25, 2005
Age: 26
Posts: 1489
Location: On top of a hill next to a golf course (0 golf balls have broken the back windows on the house)
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| Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:50 pm Post subject: |
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I miss, and spent all weekend missing, someone very special to me....
she knows who she is
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Pikachu
CB operator, Callsign 26-TM-082
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Joined: Mar 25, 2005
Age: 26
Posts: 1489
Location: On top of a hill next to a golf course (0 golf balls have broken the back windows on the house)
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| Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 5:24 pm Post subject: |
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I'm missing my sweetheart..... 
I miss her more as the seconds pass
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dtoxic
Deinonychus
Joined: Jun 23, 2008
Age: 38
Posts: 312
Location: Boston MA
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| Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 1:01 am Post subject: |
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I'm missing my friend M_____ who moved to New York.
I don't know what "love" is. I've been around for 37 years and never had any of my crushes reciprocated, so I'm used to rejection. I'm beyond cynical about it now, and I dismiss each new rejection as par for the course. So many arrows have been shot into my heart that there's no room for any more direct hits - they just bounce off the dozens already stuck there.
But M_____ was different. She continues to haunt me. Smart, unbelievably sexy, down-to-earth/one-of-the-guys personality, taste for adventure...I'm a logic-dominant person and would never use "perfect" to describe a potential mate, but she scored high in so many categories I doubt I'll ever find a better candidate. She had a string of worthless boyfriends who treated her badly, which vexes me to this day. After knowing her for 3 years (as a friend I seldom got to hang out with), I became the consolation guy after she broke up with the latest loser. Within 2 weeks of that I made a move. I tried to kiss her on the lips and she turned away.
She was too special for me to just give up (which I've done in every similar situation). I got her to go out with me a week later, but she used the date as a way to tell me she was moving to NYC.
That was a year ago.
Last I heard the loser I consoled her for breaking up with moved back in with her down there.
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