metaldanielle
Bottom of the totem pole
Joined: Mar 02, 2012
Age: 23
Posts: 2291
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| Why am I single? Cuz no one asks me out. I rarely leave the house, I don't have many opportunites to meet people. |
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1000Knives
It's not difficult if you know how.
Joined: Jul 09, 2011
Age: 22
Posts: 4611
Location: CT, USA
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| Posted: Wed May 23, 2012 2:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Ztrain wrote: | | scarter wrote: | | Look at my profile picture. Any questions? |
You seem more like a Badass than anything |
I can't find said picture, but here:
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Too sugoi to die! |
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anomy
Blue Jay
Joined: May 23, 2012
Posts: 96
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| Well, there's only one guy I really like and I think he's an aspie too! In this department, he contradicts himself a lot. |
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MusicOnMyMind
Emu Egg
Joined: May 23, 2012
Posts: 6
Location: United States
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| Posted: Wed May 23, 2012 11:29 pm Post subject: |
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| In short, I don't even know how to handle stuff like this. The Aspies I know are equally lost. And I just plain scare the NTs. |
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karnage
Butterfly
Joined: Jan 06, 2012
Age: 25
Posts: 9
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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| I think I am cursed, I'm attractive and good at snowboarding but I still haven't had a girlfriend. I have trouble picking up on signs females display when they are interested in me and if I do pick up the signs, I do not know how to react. I have never met a female aspie before, that would be interesting too. |
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AussieMatty
Velociraptor
Joined: Mar 22, 2012
Age: 22
Posts: 404
Location: Townsville, Queensland
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| I say ditto for all of you in previous 4 posts..... I find it is really rude for those NT's perspective against aspies. |
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blue_bean
Buy me a Pony!
Joined: Apr 14, 2006
Age: 29
Posts: 8237
Location: sailing the accountancy
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 9:05 am Post subject: |
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Because I've lost most of my motivation to look for a relationship, and I've worn out all avenues I was using to find one. Now my only chance is to look for one....*shock* OFFLINE!!  |
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spongy
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Joined: Jul 18, 2010
Age: 22
Posts: 7412
Location: Patiently waiting for the seventh wave
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Im trying to work on getting the right mindset.
I spent a while avoiding interactions with females for some dumb reason and now I still get nervous around females and they can see it.. Im working on it with some decent results but I still have plenty of work to do.
This weekend for example I met some new people that get together to take pictures and talk about photography... One of them brought his partner and I politely ignored her most of the time(she was with her partner and twice my age). At some point I took a break from the photographs and used some lame conversation starter.
She wanted to talk so we talked for a while. She made sure I was feeling nice(kept telling me I was the only one talking to her and I should go more oftenly blah blah) but I didnt know what to say most of the time. I was scared of saying the wrong thing and her thinking I was just a dumb kid or something
Somehow the night went on and she kept talking to me but as you may guess 99% of the girls that are approached by me(which are quite rare)usually leave when they see that I need so much time to reply... |
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ComposerGal1928
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: May 18, 2012
Age: 20
Posts: 67
Location: Houston
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 6:10 pm Post subject: |
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| I guess I'm just not interested. I know people who have been in at least two relationships at this point in our lives, but I never have. Plus, the thought of it kind of weirds me out. |
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Uri
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: May 11, 2012
Posts: 50
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 6:24 pm Post subject: |
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| ComposerGal1928 wrote: | | I know people who have been in at least two relationships at this point in our lives, but I never have. |
But you're only 19. I'm almost 26 already and never had any physical connection with a woman.
If I turn 40 in 14 years and will still be a virgin, then this will make me feel slightly uneasy and maybe even a bit angry and sad. |
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ZX_SpectrumDisorder
Phoenix
Joined: Feb 25, 2012
Posts: 1608
Location: Ireland
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| Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 6:43 pm Post subject: |
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| I still need a break. |
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unreal3x
Deinonychus
Joined: Nov 18, 2008
Posts: 359
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 YAY! +1 Reply from her
Hmm." 5 or 6 sheep. "
Ok. Yep. Soo....
I am terrible. What to do now . |
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jdanaya
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: May 25, 2012
Age: 22
Posts: 45
Location: New Jersey
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Because I don't have enough confidence to ask a girl out, and i am still in pain over being cheated on. |
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HD3H
That Dude Over There!
Joined: Sep 23, 2008
Age: 21
Posts: 4725
Location: Denmark
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 9:15 pm Post subject: |
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Got out of a relationship a month ago
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http://www.spectrumforums.com It Aint Easy It Just Proves How Great I Am... |
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NeueZiel
Seņorita Gamera
Joined: Apr 29, 2012
Posts: 1246
Location: Kapustin Yar
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 9:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Live with my parents, scared of other people, don't really know anyone I'd be interested in, not even interested in dating. |
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