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25 Apr 2012, 2:03 pm

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Girls, could you go out with a guy shorter than you?


I have, and would again, as long as he had no problem with me wearing heels.



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25 Apr 2012, 2:14 pm

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Girls, could you go out with a guy shorter than you?


If I still dated, I would. I don't like guys that are super tall. It's awkward when kissing and stuff, ya know... I mean, it could be awkward if he was super short too, but somehow seems less awkward when he's shorter than me. My husband is barely 3 inches taller than I am, and I'm only 5'5. We're not that tall (he has a female cousin who's over 6 feet tall ! !!)



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25 Apr 2012, 2:20 pm

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Unfortunately, I seem to meet more negative criteria than positive ones. :P


This is also a small sub-group within a larger group. Statistically, we can't possibly be the voice for "all" women. Of course, that would depend on which negative criteria you appear to be meeting.



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25 Apr 2012, 2:21 pm

RainShadow wrote:
ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Girls, could you go out with a guy shorter than you?


If I still dated, I would. I don't like guys that are super tall. It's awkward when kissing and stuff, ya know...


Agreed!

Kissing someone significantly taller than you gives you a sore neck. :cry:



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25 Apr 2012, 2:39 pm

The most attractive features for me are: (all academic as I'm married and he's just right)

cleanliness - would need to shower once a day
looks after his body (he doesn't need to go to the gym, in fact overdoing it there would turn me off) - just enough to show me that he doesn't intend couch potatoing himself to an early grave
looks after his health in general, so no smoking, no binge drinking and no illegal drugs (would tolerate cannabis, but not smoked)
neat hair - needn't be short, but no mullet and no hair dye, especially not streaks
body hair - natural please, trim it if it gets out of hand, but please don't wax
colouring - any at all
a pert bum is a bonus - check :wink:

I should think that most of the above could be do-able for any man.


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25 Apr 2012, 4:52 pm

unattractive:
BO
too much muscle, anything more than Skillet's John Cooper is too much.
Bald
too much body hair
Facial hair
beer belly
short legs

Attractive
Pretty eyes, particularly blue or green
nice smile
long hair
average build
hair that is darker than skin color, for instance a really tan guy w/ blond hair isn't attractive
sexy voice



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25 Apr 2012, 4:56 pm

HisDivineMajesty wrote:
Unfortunately, I seem to meet more negative criteria than positive ones. :P

Is that you in your avatar? If so, you're pretty cute! Lovely lips. Is that okay to say to a man?



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25 Apr 2012, 5:13 pm

What's BO?



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25 Apr 2012, 5:14 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
What's BO?


Body Odor.



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25 Apr 2012, 5:15 pm

BO= body odor



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25 Apr 2012, 5:49 pm

BO: Body odor.



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25 Apr 2012, 5:52 pm

If you're sensative to BO I do not recommend you attend a metal concert :twisted:, because there will be much sweat, B.O possibly the smell of beer or mayben even cannabis.


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25 Apr 2012, 5:54 pm

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Girls, could you go out with a guy shorter than you?

I've only met guys shorter than me once or twice, but short would be good for me, most men are probably too tall compared to me.


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25 Apr 2012, 6:56 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
Attractive: Facial hair (purely preferential), smarts, inner-strength, good principles and morals, stable.

Unattractive: Tattoos (I could date someone with them but I'm repelled by guys that flaunt them like they've got nothing else), materiality, smaller waists than me, pretentiousness, ego's, emotional fragility/weakness.


All in bold are not physical features.

Fail.

You'll be thrown to the crocodiles.


Actually, the question is a fail. In my personal experience, by and large, although exceptions may exist, women do not pick men based on physical features.

Not the ones a guy is born with, anyway. Things like haircuts and clothing choices enter the picture because they tell you something about who the guy is, and who he is, inside, is THE most important feature.


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25 Apr 2012, 7:11 pm

Attractive; scent...OMG there is just this scent some men give off that's intoxicating, wrinkles...a face with character, tall with a nice build, nice big many hands, and beautiful eyes.

Unattractive; poor hygiene.


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25 Apr 2012, 7:11 pm

DW_a_mom wrote:

Actually, the question is a fail. By and large, although exceptions may exist, women do not pick men based on physical features.



Sorry, but pull the other one, it's got bells on.