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26 Apr 2012, 2:58 pm

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I personally think body-building is good for men who don't want to sag at an old age, but a lot of young people have good muscle mass naturally, why do they work hard to develop it even more? It's something to do, but I never really got why...

Nobody has six-pack abs or big arms naturally.

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26 Apr 2012, 2:58 pm

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I don't get why that is more attractive than this, though...

Most women would find that disgusting, and I can see why.

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26 Apr 2012, 2:59 pm

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I don't get why that is more attractive than this, though...

This guy is completely disproportionate, and looks like he's been juicing. Major unattractive (to me).

And, no, Robert Pattinson is not masculine. Not to this gal, anyway. He may be different in person, but everything I've seen him in screams androgynous.

Then again, I'm more of a Jeffrey Dean Morgan-type, in terms of attraction.

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26 Apr 2012, 3:08 pm

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Nobody has six-pack abs or big arms naturally.

It actually depends on what line of work they do, for example, and I hope you'll excuse using the same example I've used in another thread, construction workers would be more muscular than someone working in a bank... Especially if they have an active lifestyle in addition. But not on a body-building level, because body builders do not only work on their muscles, they also eat a lot of protein etc. and that lifestyle is very calculated.

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26 Apr 2012, 3:10 pm

mv wrote:

Kurgan wrote:

I don't get why that is more attractive than this, though...

Maybe Frank Zane is a bad example. Why is Robert Pattinson better looking than this?

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26 Apr 2012, 3:12 pm

Bun wrote:

Kurgan wrote:

Bun wrote:

Nobody has six-pack abs or big arms naturally.

The typically won't have six pack abs or large arms. The reason sprinters and UFC fighters also lift heavy in the gym is because it's the only way to get a significant muscle gain.

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26 Apr 2012, 3:13 pm

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Maybe Frank Zane is a bad example. Why is Robert Pattinson better looking than this?

He isn't. This guy is very hot. Pattinson isn't, to me. Pattinson is "pretty". Yuck. JMHO.

Of course, tastes change over a lifetime. I'm in my 40's, so that could inform my tastes, as well. :wink:

I never did like the pretty look, though. Never.

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26 Apr 2012, 3:14 pm

Haha, maybe I have an image of what Working Men look like from porn, who knows... :lol: Don't forget we're AS here. :wink: Anyway, I'm ready to admit my mistake.

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26 Apr 2012, 3:28 pm

Attractive.....

Honestly, integrity, sense of humour, easy going.....

Unattractive, temper, lying, drugs, permiscuity......

PHYSICALLY???? only thing I am attracted to is a sparkle in their eye...

unattractive.....Hrmmmm. really don't care.... maybe too fat, like HUGE too fat..... huggabear fat is fine, just not could keel over any day fat...

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26 Apr 2012, 3:40 pm

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Most women I know in this life care about the male's looks.

Why else women drool on celebs like Georges Clooney.

Twilight anyone? Why Harry Potter isn't as popularly admired by girls?

Duh, stop claiming that females are superior in that regard.

DW_a_mom, sometimes, I wonder from what planet you are.

Anyways, there's no dubious reason for making this thread, it's just a copy of the other thread.

What planet am I on? The one where I've dated quite a variety men and am now quite happily married, hanging out mostly with other people who are quite happily married. The one where I know the difference between fantasy and reality.

Since this is the love and dating board, there is something I think posters hoping to find the real thing need to understand: there is, in my experience, based off my life and the women I am close to, a world of difference between drooling/fawning/acting like a love-crazed tween and the reality of dating/marriage. One is fantasy and one is reality, and in my experience reality is much, much, much better than fantasy. Fantasy is tons of fun and it has its place, and women can even bond over it, but it often, in my experience, has more to do with what you don't really want than what you really do.

All that said, in the light of good fun:

Eyes and smiles. Those are my biggest turn ons. Not that a good body hurts, but a good body without the eyes and the smile is nothing.

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26 Apr 2012, 3:44 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

of course looks are important to women - nobody said it was not the case.

Harry Potter is massively popular with girls, actually. but they are definitely younger as it is a children's book and not aimed at adult women.

and you are pushing this to the realm of a personal attack on DW_A_Mom. knock it off.

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26 Apr 2012, 5:12 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

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Harry Potter is massively popular with girls, actually. but they are definitely younger as it is a children's book and not aimed at adult women.

No, harry potten, even the older version of Harry Potter was never ever a sex symbol among teen girls like that twilight dude.
and you are pushing this to the realm of a personal attack on DW_A_Mom. knock it off.

Well her 'dubious reasons' comment was in the real of a personal attack on me , so she better to knock it off too.

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26 Apr 2012, 5:18 pm

DW_a_mom wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

There was a stats okcupid study showing that women only rate a minority of men as hot-looking, much less than men who rate a large portion of women as hot-looking.

So if this is true, a lot of women have no choice but to pick men who are much less "hot-looking" than their fantasies. Give them more choices, and things would be too different.

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26 Apr 2012, 5:46 pm

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I find these features (most) attractive:

Swimmers build. Too much bulk is just scary... though I have recently found a couple of muscly guys physically appealing for some reason.
I find I have little preference for eye colour, though contrasting, deep eyes are very appealing. Dark colours, for instance.
Taller than I is a preference, for sure. I'm 180cm, so it's pretty hard to find taller men.
Soft lips!
Working hands >.>
Facial hair!
Body hair!
mmm.... body hair... Actually, nothing is more attractive than chest hair

Blooooooom.......... "WE'RE GETTING CLOSER!! !!" (Bloom old quote :lol:

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I do not shave anymore!! ! Okay okay, I have to admit, I do not shave "frequently" :wink:

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26 Apr 2012, 6:07 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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Harry Potter is massively popular with girls, actually. but they are definitely younger as it is a children's book and not aimed at adult women.

Well her 'dubious reasons' comment was in the real of a personal attack on me , so she better to knock it off too.

Harry Potter is/was was a sex symbol - just with a younger set. i am particularly aware of this as i had a teenager of the applicable age with applicable friends.

her statement that you have created a thread for dubious reasons is not an attack. you have created several threads for dubious reasons in recent times.

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26 Apr 2012, 6:10 pm

Kurgan wrote:

Bun wrote:

Kurgan wrote:

Bun wrote:

Nobody has six-pack abs or big arms naturally.

The typically won't have six pack abs or large arms. The reason sprinters and UFC fighters also lift heavy in the gym is because it's the only way to get a significant muscle gain.

i dated a rock landscaper, and he had naturally big arms and a 6-pack. he did not go to the gym or lift weights.

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