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LadyM Tufted Titmouse


Joined: Apr 12, 2008 Posts: 31
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 3:44 am Post subject: |
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| gobi wrote: | Other than my significant-other....
...zero. |
Same. |
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oxes Yellow-bellied Woodpecker


Joined: Apr 01, 2008 Posts: 50
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Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 3:58 am Post subject: |
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actual close friends?
probably 3 or 4. 7, actually, if i count three more that i havent spoken to for a couple of months because of distance and workload on both ends.
i have loads of acquaintances though. i'm in a new place now though so all those close friends are actually quite far away. i need to make some new ones. took me about 2 years for the group already mentioned. dunno how long its gonna take this time.
the thing is, acquaintances are easy because they dont know you personally. they know the social you, not the real person behind. after you learn small talk it is really easy to make acquaintances. |
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Zara Master of Unlocking

Joined: Jun 24, 2007 Age: 27 Posts: 1448 Location: Deep Dungeon, VA
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Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 12:36 pm Post subject: |
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Only one in RL. _________________ Current obsessions: Hurricane Season
Currently playing: Final Fantasy IV DS/Soul Calibur IV/SRW Alpha Gaiden
Current Anime watching: Internet tubes
Currently building: RX-78-2 Ver BTS(on hold for now)
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petal Sea Gull


Joined: Oct 21, 2007 Posts: 236 Location: Sydney
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Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2008 8:06 pm Post subject: |
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FRIENDS- over 40. I don't count.
TRUE FRIENDS- less than 1. I lie. A lot. simply to deal and get along with my friends. None know anything about ME, just what they see. I would say about 20 people consider me a close friend, cuz I let them tell me stuff I don't want to hear.
I am only ever honest to one friend And even so I don't tell them much at all ( the most being about the guy that I liked that liked me that my "friends" didn't like much, and only because she never met him. this person moved to another city and still talks to me. I don't know whether I actually enjoy their company (ie. probably not), but at least I can tell them something |
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GoatOnFire Greatest Of All Time

Joined: Feb 23, 2007 Posts: 3358 Location: Texas
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Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2008 8:33 pm Post subject: |
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The correct number for my answer to this query starts with the letter z.  _________________ Oh say, can you see? Everyone is dumb but me. I'm never ever wrong, and that's all you'll ever be. |
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Unbeliever Blue Jay


Joined: Mar 10, 2008 Age: 22 Posts: 92 Location: UK
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Posted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 8:34 am Post subject: |
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Until recently I would have said I have no close friends and a range of friends/ friendly acquaintances, but this has changed due to my recent discovery of AS. I now realize that a couple of the people I know, and spend the majority of my time with, I would actually class as good friends and think would see me in the same light.
Unfortunately it has also made me realize the amount of people I have been close to and then lost contact with simply because I didn't understand the situation (My norm is to be generally quite distant and let other people I'm with deal with the social interaction- not good if the person they're talking to wants to talk to me and I don't respond). _________________ "Rules are made for the obedience of fools and the guidence of wise men"
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curiouslittleboy Deinonychus


Joined: Jun 07, 2007 Age: 20 Posts: 328
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Posted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:26 pm Post subject: |
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| Two. One IRL, and another online. |
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Yoshie777 Paragon

Joined: Apr 30, 2007 Age: 20 Posts: 2018 Location: Ellensburg, WA
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Posted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 5:11 pm Post subject: |
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I'm probably going to say none because I think of a close friend as someone you can rely on and hang out with all the time. _________________ Joshua
We all deal with problems and strife, but it's how we deal with them that makes all the difference in the world.
"You are no accident!"
-Rick Warren |
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kaytie Sea Gull


Joined: Apr 28, 2008 Age: 33 Posts: 241
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 8:12 am Post subject: |
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they come and go...
when i was in highschool there were 5 of us, we were close at the time but now 15 years later i hardly know them they have their own lives and we lost touch.
in college i had 1 friend then 2, i lost contact with all of them also
at work 4 years ago i had this one friend then we lost touch when i left the company...
right now i work freelance so friendwise...nada-0... social life consist of family members and pets |
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Deathklaat Deinonychus


Joined: Dec 04, 2007 Age: 17 Posts: 321 Location: Birmingham, AL
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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 1:29 pm Post subject: |
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A few, but my mum doesn't let me see them/talk to them anymore. _________________ "If at first you don't succeed...cheat." -Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Death out. |
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Hodor Phoenix


Joined: Mar 18, 2008 Age: 19 Posts: 834 Location: On a dumb island
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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:53 pm Post subject: |
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0, haha. That's the way I want it right now. _________________ ACHTUNG all WP'ers...I will not be online from Aug 18th for a while due to a house move. I'm still alive and well but might not have internet access for some time. So long!
[I have updated my blawg.]
Sprecst žu englisc? |
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Social_Fantom Maverick

Joined: Feb 23, 2008 Age: 24 Posts: 10861 Location: Watching from the shadows
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Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 4:51 pm Post subject: |
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I only have one close friend at the moment. _________________ Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.
-Confucius
5th Sin: Wrath |
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HurrMark55 Hummingbird


Joined: Jan 11, 2008 Posts: 19
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Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 6:07 pm Post subject: |
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| When you say close friends, meaning I discuss everything with them and see them frequently, I guess you can say I have two or three. However, I have many other friends in the area...many of them I see every week or every other week or so, and I have a couple of friends from graduate school who I am still in contact with on a regular basis. |
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Trugen Phoenix


Joined: Feb 12, 2008 Posts: 627 Location: What is Perceived as Your Reality
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Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 12:50 pm Post subject: |
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one is all you need;
however, its always nice to have multiple people to go to _________________ Name: Yoshiyahu
Drive to Madness: Love..........and power!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Omni: Potent
Omni: Temp
Face of Madness: Myself
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Josie Phoenix


Joined: Apr 26, 2008 Posts: 514
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Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 1:24 pm Post subject: |
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| I have one or two close friends. One is a dog. |
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