Pageognat
Blue Jay
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Age: 17
Posts: 87
Location: Florida
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I still try sometimes, but I've kind of just pushed dating to the very end of my priorities in life. There's so much to get done before I die, and a girlfriend is only for the moment. Relationships are fragile, and having to work within the neurotypical system only makes it worse.
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OliveOilMom
Queen of cans and jars
Joined: Nov 12, 2011
Posts: 6990
Location: Living in Faulkner's nightmare
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I felt like that growing up. I have AS. Most of my friends had bf's by the time they were 12. I didn't have one, or even have a boy talk to me as anything more than a friend until I was 15. Then I dated that guy for 2 years and dated quite a few guys until I met my husband when I was 21. I'd go through times even then when I thought I'd never find anybody to love me or that I could love. I finally found love when I had just given up on looking altogether and decided to just have fun and enjoy the moment.
Writing that I didn't have one till I was 15 looks like that was pretty young and normal and on schedule, but at the time it took forever. Back then having a bf or gf was pretty important, especially at the school I went to. Very small and cliquish. Looking back it seemed like it was 25 years or something, but it wasn't.
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Barefoot_Boy
Snowy Owl
Joined: Mar 28, 2012
Age: 18
Posts: 156
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I'm trying to find a way to ask that special someone out without it feeling so awkward and strange. Maybe someday soon it will happen.
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Caesaran
Raven
Joined: Mar 31, 2012
Posts: 111
Location: The Divide
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| Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:07 pm Post subject: Male Repelling Auras? HAH! |
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Honestly, Any girl who thinks they have a guy repelling aura has yet to meet me!
If i see girl, I talk to girl cuz guys are idiots. No girl can repel me! 
Im like the 1st infantry division on D-Day: Im going up that cliff wether i like it or not.
(0_(0_(0_(0_0)_0)_0)_0) (chinese mafia surprised face. Lol!)
Anyways,Im not discriminating on girls who i talk to, I just wish they pay more interest in me. (-_-) . Being the "friend" is frustrating. |
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