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LenaMarie
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: May 25, 2008
Posts: 33
Location: SoCal
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| every time i talk to someone not close to me they think I'm being rude because i cant look them in the eye and make for a very awkward conversation, this is to people i will most likely never see again, how do you talk to someone who you see as a potential bf/gf? |
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Bradleigh
Shadow Leopard
Joined: May 26, 2008
Age: 18
Posts: 4349
Location: Sydney, Australia
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 4:34 am Post subject: |
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| i havnt had a gf ive had cushes but am way too shy to talk to them. i think i have scared them off aswell by stareing at them, i seem to stare at people who interest me. plus how in the world would i know if they like me. |
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GodsWonder
Blue Jay
Joined: May 27, 2008
Age: 19
Posts: 75
Location: Pennsylvania, USA
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 12:13 pm Post subject: Probably not |
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| I am a 19 year old guy and I still have yet to even have a sexual attraction. For now I don't even understand relationships and all that comes with them. I can't look at a girl and tell you if she is "Hot"; to me people are people whether boy or girl and they really don't seem that much different to me. I do have a little more apprehension towards girls than guys becasue they act differently and I don't understand alto of things that they do so they cause confusion and discomfort for me sometimes. I was told that things might change for me into my twenties but there is also a possibility that things might not change ever. For me it doesn't seem like all that big of a deal because I don't have any interest in dating, for now atleast, and since I don't have any idea what all the craze is about I don't feel like I am missing all that much. |
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aspiebeauty87
Snowy Owl
Joined: Nov 12, 2007
Age: 21
Posts: 144
Location: California,USA
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 5:40 pm Post subject: ........... |
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I feel that too i can't even keep a online bf i've had one b4 but it didn't work out 
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Eel_Nadroj
Raven
Joined: May 10, 2008
Age: 18
Posts: 124
Location: Reseda, California
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| Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 12:16 am Post subject: |
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I was never into the idea of online relationships...I did meet a girl online but she lived down the street from me and we met in person a day later, and i'm trying singlesnet.com to find a near by girl. Idk if that counts as online or not.
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SierraBell
Phoenix
Joined: Aug 24, 2007
Age: 16
Posts: 509
Location: My secret lair, or anywhere near animals, books, and macs
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| Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 1:18 am Post subject: Re: ........... |
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| aspiebeauty87 wrote: | | I feel that too i can't even keep a online bf i've had one b4 but it didn't work out |
I had an online relationship that I knew right from the beginning that it was wrong to have. The guy was an obnoxious pervert that kept changing his story, he kept brushing aside my feelings, and then I decided to stop talking to him because I knew I had to take a stand against him. Then he started spreading false rumors about me to other people. Well, now it's been three years since that happened. It wasn't a long relationship, it only lasted for a few weeks  it really did hurt though... |
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chrism
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Jun 07, 2008
Posts: 65
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honestly if you have difficulties coping with things DONT DATE...
seriously, i dated a girl for 2 years and she broke up with me because some girl at school was telling her lies about something stupid, it's about 6 months after that and i STILL think about her whenever i wake up and whenever i see her my heartbeat jumps...
I loved her to bits and i can't seem to stop loving her. and it hurts cos she hates me for silly, inappropriate reasons.
love/dating hurts. |
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freak_audio
Snowy Owl
Joined: Dec 10, 2007
Age: 20
Posts: 147
Location: Belfast, N. Ireland
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Even though I have before... Yes. I think I understand people even less than I used too. 
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Ashton
Raven
Joined: Jun 10, 2008
Posts: 100
Location: Australia
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 8:20 am Post subject: |
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| freak_audio wrote: | | Even though I have before... Yes. I think I understand people even less than I used too. |
Quoted for truth.
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tweety_fan
Phoenix
Joined: Oct 03, 2007
Posts: 1553
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i feel that i may never get a b/f ...doesn't worry me. i don't base my life on looking for one. i just feel like i would not cope with relationships and that stuff.
never bothered dating, people have done the "my friend likes you" joke on me, which was just annoying. |
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SierraBell
Phoenix
Joined: Aug 24, 2007
Age: 16
Posts: 509
Location: My secret lair, or anywhere near animals, books, and macs
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| lol, it's official, I'll never get one until my 30s or late 20s. I'm too emotionally unstable and immature for a relationship. It sucks...bad.... |
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mila_oblong
Hummingbird
Joined: Aug 27, 2008
Age: 26
Posts: 20
Location: New Jersey, USA, Earth
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Sometimes I do, but it doesn't bother me as much as it used to. I had more guy friends in high school than I did girl friends. Then again, I consider anyone who's been nice to me and has talked to me as a friend, but that's just me. You know what's funny, most of my guy friends are single, a few are married or are getting married, and one that I know of is married because his "wife"(I have a sneaking suspicion that he kind of married her out of obligation because she was pregnant with their daughter who is now in preschool, then again that's probably also jealousy talking, however, if I were jealous, then I would've been going on and on about it 24/7/365 within that 4 year span.)was pregnant and thus did so out of obligation. Commendable when you consider that not every guy out there will step up and take responsibility for the child he helped conceive, but stupid when you realize that he didn't have to marry her. Oh well, he's now a father of two children( they have a son who's a toddler)and the only thing that matters to me is his happiness. If he's happy, then great. However, I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up wanting a divorce.
Funny thing is, I know more about love just from reading advice columns and articles, plus observation and my own experiences than most people do because they've had a relationship. I wasn't the dateless wonder in high school for nothing, there were some guys I suspect had the hots for me, then again whenever some guy would tell me that another guy liked me, I wouldn't believe it. Some times I'd ask the guy myself, other times I'd think it was a clever attempt to fool me into thinking that a guy likes me when he really doesn't. |
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HD3H
The Lord and Master... Nemesis of DeLoreanDude
Joined: Sep 23, 2008
Age: 17
Posts: 4163
Location: Denmark
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| Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 3:20 am Post subject: |
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| not really...sometimes when im really in a bad mood i might start to think like that but usally no i dont.... |
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Prosser
Toucan
Joined: Nov 10, 2008
Age: 16
Posts: 257
Location: Perth, Westen Australia
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| Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 5:44 am Post subject: |
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I would have thought the basis of a relationship is two people being able to understand and appreciate each other.
I doubt I will ever be able to understand or appreciate an NT, nevermind vice versa, ya get me?
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DeLoreanDude
Nemesis of HD3H and Kasuki-Chan
Joined: Oct 11, 2008
Age: 14
Posts: 1429
Location: London
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| Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 11:15 am Post subject: |
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I had a girlfriend before and screwed it up. She was a bit weird though... I dont think I could ever have a relationship with a "normal" teenager, then again I dont really want to.
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