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pbcoll
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 Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 9:50 pm Post subject: |
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| sands wrote: | | When I read this post I almost had to laugh, since it is me who is the NT and the guy I like has Aspergers and just wants to be friends! Believe me it doesn't feel good from either side!!!!!!!! |
There's a girl i know that gave some signs she could be interested - but I only ever liked her as a friend (she didn't ask me out or anything so I didn't actually reject her). Yes, it can happen from both sides.
My latest experience with the 'lets be friends' thing has convinced me that in the future I will either not ask the girl out or just cut off all contact if she says no. what happened was that she rejected me but said she wanted to be friends, arguing that she has a bf (whom she says she considers unattractive and dislikes his personality, plus he's on another continent) and that she doesn't want an 'exotic boyfriend' (ironically enough, I've been mistaken for being from her country by people from her country). Now, one day she will not even reply when I greet her, the next she'll be almost overfriendly.
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sands
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| Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 11:32 pm Post subject: |
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I know both sides can feel it. I think I get as much from him as anyone does, at least now I can get him to go places with me. I've decided for right now I'll keep my crush and he gets another good friend. Since we seem to like almost the same things it works for me!!!!! Although, I know this sounds rather stupid, but as long as I like him I couldn't go out with anyone else anyway. I've always been weird like that!
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qgambit
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Joined: Feb 06, 2008
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Location: Los Angeles CA
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| Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 2:39 am Post subject: |
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| Thanks for all your comments everyone. |
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