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Yotsuba
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Thanks. At least I know I'm not alone. And yes, I have been thinking of getting a counselor for the paranoid thing.
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hacker_mage
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i got beat a couple weeks ago ...
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KyTE317
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| Unfortunetly its hard to deal with and you really can't get help all the time, and whats worse is that the teachers who see the bullying think nothing of it. NT teachers are more inclined to take the side of NT or close to NT bullies, cause they relate to them the most, and they see it as harmless fun. It's not. And all the bully prevention tapes the principal shows in the cafeteria or in his office after a fight will not change the fact. The best thing to do is to tell someone who you trust and not interfere, cause it stops right outta high school, and if you go into college, they hardly talk to you. |
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mouapp
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Joined: Mar 21, 2007
Age: 18
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Location: probably not WP
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all of my schools have had the policy of blame everyone for anything s nothing really got out of hand but ive met my fair share of bullying tools but i always managed to ignore them
the worst was a guy who fr months sat next to me and enjoyed continuously whispering "you have no friends" (looking back i think i had more friends than him) the one time i even reacted was when one day he started bagging my friends .... i garbed him by the neck and pined him to a wall and with considerable effort didn't hit him
its the little victories that count
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sigholdaccountlost
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| Endersdragon wrote: | I say we have the older aspies beat the younger aspies bullies up  . |
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calandale
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Joined: Mar 10, 2007
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| Some of us oldtimers ain't the fighters we used to be. |
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Fickle_Pickle
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Location: California, USA
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Sorry for bumping this but I remember that in middle school that everyone was obsessed with "maturity" (yet they acted like 4-year-olds when they tormented people) I said I didn't care and one guy said "You better, or you'll never have a boyfriend." and I was like "Whatever." (I was even thinking, what if my boyfriend was also not obsessed with being mature.) and a year later, I think a guy developed a crush on me and I thought about the guy who said that would never happen and I thought "In your face!"  |
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wasted_space
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In the latter 2-3 years I was being bullied by a group of NT girls in my class. I was trying to offend them, as they do, but it was no use. Thank God, forthcoming year (9th) new students will arrive at my school and new classes will be structured, leaving a few autochtons.
But this year I have bought combat boots and changed my appearance because I'm really into Gothic and Industrial subcultures. I am worried it will be the same, only they'll taunt me because of my looks.
So what do you think? Should I dress whatever I want, or should I try to look like others, despite my hate to conformists? |
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svend_sved
Deinonychus
Joined: Jul 01, 2007
Age: 17
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Location: denmark
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| wasted_space wrote: | In the latter 2-3 years I was being bullied by a group of NT girls in my class. I was trying to offend them, as they do, but it was no use. Thank God, forthcoming year (9th) new students will arrive at my school and new classes will be structured, leaving a few autochtons.
But this year I have bought combat boots and changed my appearance because I'm really into Gothic and Industrial subcultures. I am worried it will be the same, only they'll taunt me because of my looks.
So what do you think? Should I dress whatever I want, or should I try to look like others, despite my hate to conformists? |
you should dress the way you like. and if anyone tryes to bully you, use your new boots to kick them in the lower parts. leather is easy to clean, you know  |
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Ki_Lunacy
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Location: Arkansas
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Yes, I have been bullied. Not very much Physically...except for the time I was pushed down a bunch of stone steps in fourth grade and then laughed at. I'm lucky I didn't break my nose.
No, people know I can and will fight back if pushed far enough.
The emotional and verbal abuse I still get stings.
When I was in primary I was called 'The Gross Girl' I don't know what was so gross about me.
In fourth grade a group of girls tortured me everyday in front of the teacher. The teachers never did a thing. They told me I should learn to handle it better.
In fifth grade I thought I had two really good "friends forever." It was a good year, though I recall a painful incident where I was made fun of for not having a Grandmother.
By sixth grade one began to slowly disown me while the other simply drifted away from me. I was picked on for liking cats and anime some as well.
In seventh some older girl made fun of me by calling me 'autistic'. I did not know I had Asperger's. The friend who disowns me did nothing, despite earlier telling me she'd risk her life for me. That was the last day I ever called myself her friend. She put me through a lot that year.
In 8th I get made fun of every day by random different people. I've had used napkins thrown at me, people yelling in my ears, telling people who are sitting beside them that I scare them because I was crying during a disturbing part in a movie, the list goes on forever. I've even had the way I sharpen my pencil made fun of. People laugh and point at me as I sit alone at lunch.
I threatened suicide just to see what the people making fun of me would do. Almost everyone in the room joined together makig fun of me, saying things like "Oh is that a threat!?" and "If you do you'll go to Hell." These things were said in very mean tones of voice. The two or three people not making fun of me said nothing. That was just this week.
I'm lonlier and sadder than I've ever been and yet, this may only be the start.
This board was good for getting some things off my chest. Thanks for making it. |
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Garrett
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Location: florida.
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These dolts on the computer keeps harassing and mocking me because of asperger.
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JonHaukur
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| When I noticed I was starting to get bullied, I kinda bullied the other guy twice as hard... Not a good way to solve things, but yeah... Works..? |
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sag
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| I've been bullied all through nusery> primary> even today at high school (5th year now), and I really hate it. I try to ignore it and very rarely lose it, and when I do I never use physical violence, though I usually end up mouthing them. History class last year was the worst ever since my teacher was a wuss who was too scared to do anything about the neds, which I guess makes the teacher a bully... Its hard to cope with. |
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tweety_fan
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at every school i went to i copped it from a few popular kids and not so popular ones. The only educational place i did not cop any of that is my TAFE that i attend part time. (full of peoples that have better things to do then pick on peoples cos of whatever stupid reason)
Whenever i got bullied it was mostly for my quirks, they would call me a retard constantly. I remember my mum complaining to the school about it in primary school and nothing was done. I think i tattled on this one bully about 20 times. But apparently he is in prison now accordingly to Mum. karma biting him in the butt. haha!
my stories are tame compared to others, it sucks that there are so many evil peoples in this world it does.
has anyone copped it from the group of popular girls that always sit around and gossip about peoples? i remember coping it from a group like that once or twice too. really sucks. |
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gs56ca
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Joined: Oct 18, 2007
Age: 20
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| Bullying has been a part of my life, even though I'm still 19. Everytime I'm in a group or doing something, I always have to be the odd fellow, because I don't follow the norms like others do. What can I say, it's just me. God made me that way. Oh man, I have to go , I'll tell more stuff later. |
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