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elvenmage
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just wear some cool sun glasses, some big boots and a trench coat and nobody will even think about bullying you.
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 5:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honestly, I've been bullied very, very, little. So little that I could say "never" and it would probably be 99% true.

In fourth grade there was this one kid who made fun of me a bit, really nothing major... I was never beaten up or anything.

He was the shortest kid in the grade, even smaller than most kindergarteners. And I was by far the tallest and most physically mature, looking about 13 when I was only 9 or 10, so I have always believed he was simply jealous. He said a few things on into sixth grade, including "you're fat" (which I'm not - I had a BMI of 16 back then) and "your boobs are so big people in China can see them".

This kid clearly has some form of dwarfism and wasn't liked by anyone, so as the one least like him I was probably the best target for his insults. But I had better snarky comebacks, and after two years of his annoying me, the teachers noticed and punished him.

He hasn't spoken to me or looked me in the eye since. And he's still tiny and has no friends. Happy ending for me!
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Jondalar
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 8:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've almost never been bullied, in my very young years when I first started school I used to pick fights with kids that would pick on me, and they kept at it, and it made me feel kind of important actually because they seemed so opposed to me, later I just didn't give them any attention and they left me alone very fast, I havn't been picked on in the slightest throughout highschool, maybe by friends just kidding around.
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Shadowgirl
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 10:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sadly those like us are the most targeted. A pain I know all to well.
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Alex440
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 4:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bleh. I got it a fair bit in primary school. One kid who was a bit older used to push me into the urinals, I started hiding in a cubicle all lunchtime so he wouldn't find me. Other kids in my class picked on me for whatever reasons. I did have an obsession with cars to the point of running round the playgrounds being a car until about age 11, so it was easy to have a reason to be picked on. Teachers helped a bit but it never really stopped and I was afraid to defend myself.

In intermediate I got it a bit but most of it was just bitching from hormone-ridden girls.

Since I started high school I've slowly got more confident and now I'm nearly 17 I'm actually being a bit aggressive when people give me a hard time. I've come close to getting in fights a few times and I've started simple exercises to make me a little more muscular. I think standing up for myself has been good because people generally leave me alone now.

One of the worst bullies I had is still around, but he's a total loser. He's skinny, a gamer, and drives his mother's car past the school gates after school trying to show off. He ran me down once when I was walking home a few months ago, I'm hoping he does it again so I have an excuse to prove I'm not a wimp anymore Twisted Evil
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 7:33 pm    Post subject: the anser how to stop bullys Reply with quote

fist of all if then insult you laugh at them dont let it bother you tell them to stop get the teacher if they dont come up with a good comeback for example one my under were was show ing and this one girl told me "no girl wears hanes (hanes is a brand of under wear) i turned looked her strait in the face and said "if you have to resort to the kind of underwear i wear to insult me i think i'm doing pretty good dont you

if they insult you on your looks say if they cant come up with anything better then dont waste your time

and your inteligense

say being inteligent means i can insult you by calling you a (use big words here like moraly bankrupt ____ with a diva complex) and you have to go find a dictionary to come up with a resort
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dragonboy
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 9:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i was bullied since i was 7 till a couple of months ago.
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 10:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think I'm in the minority, but I was pretty much never bullied, which is especially strange because I was always tiny relative to most people my age. I got a bit taller (I'm 6' now.), but i'm still skinny as hell. I got along well with pretty much everybody though.
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