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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2008 9:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This topic interests me because anything can be turned into a name. There are kids at my school whose names are made-up, but there they are: Salome, Hanif, Tijae, Jonnye, Teri, Jalanya, Tashae, and more. I really don't think you can judge people by their names, especially because they had no say in the matter. I don't have a problem with "that's not a name", because anything can be a name.
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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2008 10:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="Liopleurodon"]Yeah I have a pretty strong dislike for weird names. I don't really know why. I suppose I just have a sort-of sensor for what the world should be like, and made-up names grate on it the way that bad grammar does. I wouldn't have a problem with Tammy though: that's just short for Tamara, which is a real name. I don't like it as a name, but it's definitely a real name.

What drives me nuts is new, weird spellings for established names. Aimee and so on.[/quote

I agree in general about weird spellings,but in defence of Aimee,that is actually a genuine
French word meaning 'Beloved' .It's 'Amy' that was originally an altered English version of the French word but over time came to be the established name in English-speaking countries.
A better example of a weird spelling might be something like Hollee.Names and words are
one of my special interests and it can be fascinating to see how they evolve.Maybe in time
what seems weird now will become accepted in later years.
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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2008 11:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It always bugs me when I hear people say, "That is not a name." My god people can make up a name for their child. And also just because we have never heard of such a name before or even heard of a girl named Tommi or Geri, it does not mean those names don't exist. It also does not mean those are not girl names.

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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2008 12:01 pm    Post subject: Do you have a problem with "Stupid" names? Reply with quote

What's in a name? topic

A rose by any other name...

A person could screw around with any name, as in the song The Name Game by Shirley Ellis.

I was once a four year old Aspie, but I did not push anyone. It was the other kids that would do so, because I would avoid them. Being pushed did not change my mind about being social. Wink
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PostPosted: Sat May 31, 2008 12:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Selo wrote:
This topic interests me because anything can be turned into a name. There are kids at my school whose names are made-up, but there they are: Salome, Hanif, Tijae, Jonnye, Teri, Jalanya, Tashae, and more. I really don't think you can judge people by their names, especially because they had no say in the matter. I don't have a problem with "that's not a name", because anything can be a name.


It's probably a sign of illiterate parents. In my own family, putting a name meant to be a nick name on a birth certificate seems pretty stupid. Imagine someone's legal name as "Jimmy", "Billy", "Larry", etc.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spokane_Girl wrote:

I want to name my kid Spokane but my boyfriend won't let me, my parents agreed and so did his. I might give him or her a name from, Benny & Joon. Benjamin or Juniper but not Ferguson. I hate that name on a person. It's okay as a last name though.


Do you pronounce it the way it's spelled Spo- KAYNE, or do you accent the E so like Spo-kanEH, or Spo-kanAY? It's a cool screen name but weird real life name. They'd get called Spooky or Ghost.

I do NOT agree that anything could be a name. What if I want to call my kid Assface? There should be some protection from idiot parents trying to be cool - especially if those idiot parents are celebrities. Frank Zappa should be shot, his kids are Moon Unit, Ahmet, Dweezil and Diva Muffin. I saw Moon and Diva on a TV show, they actually kept those names!!!
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Selo wrote:
This topic interests me because anything can be turned into a name. There are kids at my school whose names are made-up, but there they are: Salome...

Salome actually isn't a made up name. It's Biblical.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

it is not fair to pick on a kid because of their name.. its not their choice.

anyway i have seen people give their kids pretty common names but spell them different.
eg madison spelled maddieson. or Zoey spelled Zoei.
it just makes things more confusing.

anyway peoples should not inflict their need to standout on their kids. eg why name your kid peaches? or moon unit?
if you want to give your child a name like that you could always use it as a middle name
as far as i know no one pays attention to the middle name.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm pretty neutral when it comes to all but the most stupid of celebrity names.

My mom on the other hand hates a lot of names. Ask her why and she'll say the name in an obnoxious voice that would make any name sound bad.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 1:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shelby wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:

I want to name my kid Spokane but my boyfriend won't let me, my parents agreed and so did his. I might give him or her a name from, Benny & Joon. Benjamin or Juniper but not Ferguson. I hate that name on a person. It's okay as a last name though.


Do you pronounce it the way it's spelled Spo- KAYNE, or do you accent the E so like Spo-kanEH, or Spo-kanAY? It's a cool screen name but weird real life name. They'd get called Spooky or Ghost.

I do NOT agree that anything could be a name. What if I want to call my kid Assface? There should be some protection from idiot parents trying to be cool - especially if those idiot parents are celebrities. Frank Zappa should be shot, his kids are Moon Unit, Ahmet, Dweezil and Diva Muffin. I saw Moon and Diva on a TV show, they actually kept those names!!!



I'm going to pronounce it the way it is pronounced. Spo-Can.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 1:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I named one of my children Valor for a middle name. So there! Smile
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 2:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

At least my boyfriend will let me name my child Spokane for a middle name.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thats sweet of him Smile

My childs name is going to be Ophelia.
Well unless I find a better name in amongst my obsessions.
I usually end up using up my 'childs' names on toys and animals.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 7:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is funny. First of all, I did a legal name change from a perfectly pronounceable "English" (Scottish) name to one a little more creative. And I get chewed out about it. A lot. But hey, I was in my 20s. What did you do in your 20s? (My sister got a tattoo, I changed my name. It's like that.)

Then there's the people I used to hang out with who were with 3HO (Kundalini Yoga) and had names like Parmatma and Jagdish - a little strange for white women, but not at all strange for them. And Jagdish's kid is called Amrita, which is quite nice.

Then there's all the ridiculous names that you see in Fantasy or SF literature, which you will be sure to find in the next generation or two in the classroom. Because.

And there was a friend in school who was named Magali, a perfectly fine French-from-France name, but it confused us Canadians, and I don't think we ever really pronounced it right.

But the one that I really remember is these two poor Chinese students over from Hong Kong who did grade 13 at my high school. Prudence (the sister) did fine and went on to engineering at university (we were in one of the same classes at uni). Her brother, Wisdom, unfortunately, had to repeat some of grade 13. I felt sorry for him under the circumstances, given his western name. He should have just gone with his Chinese name (whatever it was) to avoid embarrassment. Or switched to something easy like Sam and not told his parents.

I don't think I've ever really had the reaction that a name wasn't really a name. But maybe I just don't remember.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 7:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Back when I was in grade school, Mrs. Oney's husband had a first name of William. Thus the name Bill Oney! Laughing What were his parent's thinking? I was at the bank and saw a teller named Amanda Lynn (A mandolin).
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