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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2015, 7:55 am
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| I have spoke to my solicitor and they are going to try and get me more information about his condition, I am sure I will have access eventually but I have to wait until they have completed their procedure and as they are underfunded its not as quick as I would like. What is really bothering me is no... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 10:05 am
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| I was told by social services that he was autistic, but they did not supply any details apart from that. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 9:39 am
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| There is not a bar on me talking about it and I have not used anything that could identify me or the other parties involved and I am sure that she would not visit a website like this and also I have not said anything that could be perceived threatening. But I guess you are correct the internet is an... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 9:12 am
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| No the night time walks started after we broke up, it became a coping mechanism for being alone I did not do it when I was with the mother. The mother is not aware that I do it because it will enforce what she refers to as "he is mad". The issue is like any break up when one party is hosti... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 8:22 am
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| My Son was born before we broke up the last time I saw him was when he had just turned 2 years old, when I was there he was happy, responsive and talking with seemingly good social skills. I have heard that the first signs of autism set in when they are around that age I know one person who's child ... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Suggestion for a new board |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 7:16 am
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| Sometimes people can have crisis in their lives when they rely on friends on line (because they may be the only people they feel they can turn to) to offer support and advice, maybe a new personal crisis board could be set up to facilitate people in that kind of need. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 5:38 am
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| What I meant was that I am high functioning so is it likely what I have passed on to him will also be high functioning. I can't tell you anything about him because I have not been allowed access to him for nearly a year and no I have never done anything to hurt him in any way this is my ex using my ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 3:10 am
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| Thank you all for your advice and word of support, I did survive work without an episode and have visited the doctor this morning and I feel a lot better about things. Unfortunately I did go walking last night that I have worked very hard to get out of but no damage done I guess. A while back I had ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 10:05 am
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| I have a report from my doctor and from my therapist that look favourable, over the last few years I have learned to cope a lot better than I have in the past and I hold down a good job now and its been a long time since I have had a "melt down" episode. In regards to evidence the outcome ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 9:39 am
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| I have already got a solicitor that is representing me, I live in the UK and CAFCAS is the child protection people. They are known to be quite judgemental and mother bias. I guess there is not much I can do about their process and I will contact citizens advice to see what they said. I guess my main... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 9:07 am
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| Please somebody help, I am obsessing over it and can't stop thinking about it. I'm at work and I cant focus on anything |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Advice on child access case |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 8:36 am
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| Hello I am currently going through court proceedings to gain access to my son Reece, my partner has used the fact that I am autistic as an argument of why I should not be in my sons life. The CAFCAS officer seems to be sharing her view on this and is not taking what I say to them seriously it is as ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello I'm new |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2015, 10:48 am
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Hey Cberg, its a bit too late for that advice. I have been coding since I was 8 years old and I am now 35  |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello I'm new |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2015, 10:08 am
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| Thanks guys, I just found out today that my son has autism also. Don't know what to make of it really |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello I'm new |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2015, 9:37 am
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| Hello I did join this forum a long time ago but I mainly used the IRC chat from which I got upset when the "trolls" came in. I thought I would give the forums a try because I am getting to a point where I need the support. Ok a bit about me, I am in a relationship with a very tolerant lady... |
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