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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Almost 30, single, and worried about never finding love |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2015, 9:37 am
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Replies: 77
Views: 6,818
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| Because it totally makes sense to become enraged at something that (1) you cannot, no matter how much you rage, change in the slightest and (2) you are 100% responsible for. Please elaborate. How is it possible to be responsible for something that you can't change? 1. The thing that can't be change... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is everyone doing it? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2015, 12:23 pm
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Replies: 137
Views: 1,326
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| Not sure what feminism has to do with this. Well you appear to be that Caty "feminist" troll on here that attacks guys for everything under-the-sun short of how they look, even though you're obviously thinking it. :roll: Definitely a feminist, definitely not a troll. Simply pointing out f... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is everyone doing it? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2015, 11:34 am
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Replies: 137
Views: 1,326
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| Most people think I'm normalish, it's my lack of a good paying job that prevents me from relationships and sex That's often just an excuse women use if the guy isn't attractive enough. Criticizing a person's looks is often considered taboo so it has to be something else.(Ever notice that feminists ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is everyone doing it? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2015, 10:52 am
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Replies: 137
Views: 1,326
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| Most people think I'm normalish, it's my lack of a good paying job that prevents me from relationships and sex No, no it's not. Because there are plenty of unemployed, underemployed and barely-making-minimum-wage men who have sex, have relationships, get married, etc. In the U.S., 15% of the popula... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I ever date an attractive woman? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2015, 10:41 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,619
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| You could also make a lot of money. I was watching "Housewives of Miami" (no rolling of the eyes please) and all of those women are really good looking with husbands that need to wear a paperbag but make lots of money. (Only two of the husbands look good.) It's gotta be the money that att... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: High School Regrets |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2015, 5:07 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,836
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| I didn't do a gap year, I spent my junior year studying abroad. The classes that I took transferred back to my college in the U.S. As with anything in life, you get out of it what you put into it. If your friend chose to learn little + see only cheesy touristy sites, that was her prerogative. My cla... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Ways in which aspieism conflicts with your job |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2015, 2:29 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 10,533
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| If she wants (or any other colleague) me to do things her way, she has to teach or tell me that. That should not be a problem. In my book that is not a learning disability. In the case of the council, it took a year to have a working bookkeeping. To me that is unacceptable, because the council MUST... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: High School Regrets |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2015, 1:42 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,836
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| I don't think I regret anything in high school. I actually had big problems relating to and making friends with my peers because of my AS, but I did run track from sophomore to senior year, and got my driver's license during HS senior year. I also had a higher GPA while in HS. But the one thing I t... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Ways in which aspieism conflicts with your job |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2015, 1:28 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 10,533
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| Other problems are my and other colleague's way of thinking. If a boss gives me a task, I can come up with a system which may be more efficient than the boss's system is. Sometimes I am allowed to apply my new system, sometimes my system is too strict and has to be changed (made more flexible), som... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why so called friends shut me down? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2015, 7:44 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 366
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| Lose the "victim" mentality and, ideally, the ASD-as-explanation-for-ALL-your-behavior thing. There are all sorts of things that could be going on, like: (1) You come on a bit too strong: it takes a while to go from casual acquaintance to actual friends. If you're assuming a friendship fro... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is everyone doing it? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2015, 6:54 pm
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Replies: 137
Views: 1,326
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| I spoken to my friends about this and also that census thing. They don't believe this crock of crap. So, they told me the truth, not everyone. They said the point, if it really everyone doing it. There wouldn't be any virgins left in the world. Sexualised society is something a false pretence, wher... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Ways in which aspieism conflicts with your job |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2015, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 10,533
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| There aren't many things that bother me at work. But my previous bosses noticed, that tasks have to be precise and written down (or mailed to me using computer network's mail). A task without a deadline date can cause trouble to me, because I don't know when to start working on it. If I have nothin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is life worth living when you're too ugly for girls? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2015, 3:46 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 20,441
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| That's hilarious. The guys on this forum are having sex with hookers because no girl will have sex with them for free . Being with a girl "like that"'s clearly not a viable option. First off don't use that tone with me, I'm not your little brother. Basically here you're saying that these ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I ever date an attractive woman? |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2015, 3:16 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,619
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| I know that it's normal for guys to fantasize about models and actresses, but I will tell you that being in high school there were some very attractive women, but they all had a boyfriend. So not all attractive women have to be models or famous people. I actually envied their boyfriends, whoever th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do girls stop talking to me on Tinder? Wtf?! |
| moirakelly |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2015, 12:09 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 6,657
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| As you see some guys say stuff like "women are evil, they hate me, they ditch me for no reason, etc etc" but it's their own fault in the end. Not always. A lot of people on free dating sites don't actually want to date. Because they've nothing better to do than mess with people's heads? I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is life worth living when you're too ugly for girls? |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2015, 12:05 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 20,441
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| You might one day find a proper girlfriend who may well dump you for having been the pathetic exploitative lowlife who paid for sex. That goes triple if you pay to lose your virginity to a hooker. I keep reading things like this in this subforum and sometimes I try to be silent, but it's really mak... |
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