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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
| erkyo |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2016, 8:42 am
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Replies: 33
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Raleigh wrote: She wants you to think of her as a monk?
Who doesn't even want to think about romantic relationships?
Yep, it sounds like she's totally into you.
On a positive note, At least I have that going for me. When is the last time anyone told you to think of them in any kind of way? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Positive Love Thread |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2016, 5:18 am
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Replies: 158
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| I'll say something positive although I started the thread Boy meets Aspie girl" which BTW is a continuing blog of this incredible woman I met. She has Asperger's, I never even knew what that was until I met her. It doesnt even matter to me to be quite honest. It just means I did a crap load of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2016, 5:06 am
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| UPDATE: Haven't updated in awhile. I feel like I just had a major break through. So we have been talking and seeing each other at the usual spot almost every night. And if not at least a little text here and there between the two of because I know some days she just needs "her time". Whic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: (How) Did it work for you? |
| erkyo |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2016, 1:03 am
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Replies: 3
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| I don't know if I want a relationship, but I am someone who is very capable of experiencing romantic attraction. And boy, do I damn those feelings. To be frank though, what I want seems pretty irrelevant when I don't know if I am able to make something like that work in the first place. Do I have t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2016, 1:34 am
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Replies: 33
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| Keep in mind that there's a good chance she's just saying what's on her mind and there is no innuendo behind it. Alternatively, she may be sexually frustrated and the reason she said that she "shouldn't" is because she is worried she will do something that she will regret later. Thanks fo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2016, 7:08 am
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Replies: 33
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| UPDATE: Have things taken a twist?? I'm confused now more then ever. I definitely need a female's perceptive. Please help. So every night since my last update I have met up with her at the "usual spot". We talked for hours every time. The thing is this; she is always bringing up sex or exp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When should I ask her out? |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2016, 6:29 am
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| Alright here's what you need to do. The "kinda HMU" response seems like she wants to know if you are interesting enough to give you the time to hang out with. In other word she really doesn't have plans but she does not want to go out of her way just to be bored. That makes sense doesn't i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When should I ask her out? |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2016, 3:13 am
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| What was her answer when you asked her to hang out? If yes, then just hangout with her somewhere. While you're with her, just get to know her, see what her interest, hobbies, what she does for fun and goals are. Get to know the real her. At the same time however, and this is key, you don't want it t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2016, 11:32 am
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Replies: 33
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| @Outrider and everyone else lol plus; UPDATE: Thanks again for the insight Outrider. According to your profile it states your 17. But I must say you are definitely wiser well beyond your age. I appreciate all the wisdom you have given me over the week, it means a lot to me, and more importantly glad... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2016, 11:30 am
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Replies: 33
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| @Outrider and everyone else lol plus; UPDATE: Thanks again for the insight Outrider. According to your profile it states your 17. But I must say you are definitely wiser well beyond your age. I appreciate all the wisdom you have given me over the week, it means a lot to me, and more importantly glad... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are These Scary Questions? |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2016, 4:06 pm
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Replies: 15
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| I don't think they were scary questions. I am going through the ups and downs at the moment of meeting a new girl who has Asperger's. I'm guess what you call NT. I have been bloging about this girl I've meet here on the forums updating it almost daily. You might find some help in there as well. The ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2016, 2:56 pm
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Replies: 33
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| Great story. If I read the thread before I'd say you were going too fast with it. If you do it again, make sure you do one thing at a time, and wait for responses. That way you will be more synchronized in how fast things advance. I have a similar story (but going over a much larger time-span), but... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2016, 2:45 pm
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Replies: 33
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| UPDATE: I'll try and make this as short as possible but, we all know I can't!! So let's see if I can, no promises though ;) She did go up there just after midnight and she did text me to come up there like she said she would. Woot woot. We talked and covered a wide variety of topics and subjects, so... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 07 Mar 2016, 8:23 pm
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Replies: 33
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| Very lucky! But wait, are you still going to confess your feeling? If so, be honest but don't come on so strongly like you did online. Like I said, right now, even if her stress is at a calmer point, she still could be going through a lot and just needs someone here for her more than anything. I'd ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 07 Mar 2016, 7:03 pm
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Replies: 33
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| UPDATE: Great news this time!! :D After dinner tonight I went out for a smoke and she was in her usual parking spot. I walked up there and she seemed happy and even better she said she was happy to see me. I asked her about my message and if she was purposely avoiding me. She said "Oh no, last ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Meets AspieGirl |
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Posted: 07 Mar 2016, 1:58 am
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Replies: 33
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| @Outrider or anyone else, I been thinking about this a lot as well. Please help me out. Do you think it is possible, that maybe, she is not intentionally avoiding me because she never wants to speak to me again but rather because she can't emotionally right now. Like maybe she had a meltdown that la... |
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