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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Some questions for Incels after the Toronto van attack

Arniel
Posted: 30 Apr 2018, 8:46 am 

Replies: 216
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The gradual dissolution of monogamous traditions means that a smaller number of men will have sex with multiple women, while at the same there is an increasing amount of lonely men. This is because men tend to want to have sex with anyone remotely attractive while women tend to be a lot more picky f...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Getting over social failures

Arniel
Posted: 28 Jan 2018, 4:14 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,240
Well yes. That sounds good. But it's bigger than the occasional blunder. I just come over as totally outside of everything. Like I don't want to belong. If you put out signals that you don't belong people will happily let you not belong. I have never belonged. I had a group of friends at school and...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Getting over social failures

Arniel
Posted: 24 Jan 2018, 10:58 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,240
Examining your failures does not necessarily remove the pain. My friend told me he just laughs every time when he remembers something shameful. This has reconditioned his brain so that he no longer feels shame (and reportedly some started to think he is a psychopath or autistic in process). I think ...

 Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions   Topic: Your biggest fear

Arniel
 Post subject: Re: Your biggest fear
Posted: 21 Jan 2018, 1:13 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 2,570
auntblabby wrote:
^^^hiya Arniel :) welcome to our club 8)


Not sure if you mean wrongplanet in general or the souls of the damned club but thanks anyway :D

 Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions   Topic: Your biggest fear

Arniel
 Post subject: Re: Your biggest fear
Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 11:24 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 2,570
Lack of meaningful Human contact. I have never developed deep affection towards anyone irl, not even my family or friends. Just vague respect or crushes online. On some level I think I'm not emotionally stunted enough to not be able to experience that. I guess I could at least pop mdma to emulate it.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: If You Could Cure Your Autism Would You?

Arniel
Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 9:43 pm 

Replies: 70
Views: 1,837
Autism is only a problem insofar how it affects your mood, relationships and career. In an ideal situation one would manage to insulate themselves within a compatible social circle and manage to pull off a satisfactory job and lead a reasonably happy existence. Isolation and feeling trapped are defi...

 Forum: LGBT Discussion   Topic: Autism Spectrum and Sexual Orientation

Arniel
Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 8:58 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,349
This was an an interesting read so I thought i'd post a reply here... I'm pretty sure that I am straight but cannot be bothered with the hassle surrounding women and the dating game. I was diagnosed aspie as a child and would prefer to be in a relationship with a women. The trouble with dating as a...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: We are not superior to NT'S!

Arniel
Posted: 20 Jan 2018, 8:25 pm 

Replies: 127
Views: 7,832
NTs form social groups and hierarchies naturally, rarely question a group when they are in it and are capable of sharing local social culture effectively through small talk, which makes everyday life easier. This sort of neurology evolved for life in hunter-gatherer societies, for forming tribes and...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Are you less shy around other aspies?

Arniel
Posted: 19 Jan 2018, 7:21 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 401
I was reading this article about shyness. I suffer from social anxiety, and I wonder if it is to some extent futile to attempt to be rid of it when interacting with neurotypicals: (.)psychologytoday(.)com/articles/200001/shyness-the-new-solution Twenty-two percent of the shy try to talk themselves i...
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