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Forum: The Haven Topic: Is this sick, or what? |
| katdances |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2018, 12:58 am
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Just saw this on Facebook:
“It’s never luck, it’s always god”
Like, I went to the same school as that person  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| katdances |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2018, 4:26 am
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| Ugh yes. One of my apparently ex-friends. When I see he's watched my story on ig I'm like "Aw, X... why were you so stupid ugh" then I think I could start talking to him again but no, he did me wrong and hurt me more than once. I'm alright by it, but I know it will never be the same friend... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| katdances |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2018, 3:41 am
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Replies: 35,865 Views: 2,036,958
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| I'm guessing 1 or 2, trying to be positive here. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| katdances |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2018, 3:34 am
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Replies: 9,562 Views: 734,407
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| Costochondritis. Something that happens to women sometimes without much cause than making too much physical effort, bad posture or tension. Got a few shots and still got two more for tomorrow. I'm almost sure this isn't the end of it since I started aching again an hour ago while looking at job list... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Is this sick, or what? |
| katdances |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2018, 3:24 am
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| Recently I've been viewing a couple of YouTube videos made by people with cancer. I couldn't help noticing in the comments - one in particular - someone said "The ONLY way to be cured is to accept Jesus Christ as your LORD and saviour" Then I started noticing others had written in a simil... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| katdances |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2018, 7:34 pm
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Replies: 9,562 Views: 734,407
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| I’m at a clinic waiting for my doctor’s appointment only that I don’t know this doctor because mine is out of office for the day. But since I’ve been feeling awful heart wise I just had to take another doctor I don’t know at all and it makes me nervous. Never knew that I could suffer from anxiety bu... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: how do you prevent meltdown during work? (or even school) |
| katdances |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2018, 1:22 am
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Replies: 9 Views: 613
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| I used to go to the bathroom to breathe before entering the office and then during the day if needed. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sunglasses all the time? |
| katdances |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2018, 5:15 pm
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Replies: 16 Views: 507
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| Just to add: in my case it's not just sunlight. For comfort, most of my screens (cellphone, laptop, ipad) are always on the lowest % of brightness. My friends or family always ask me how do I see anything ever, but it's just how it works better for me. I notice how much it bothers me if I'm watching... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: A-Z of Boys Names |
| katdances |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2018, 5:44 pm
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Replies: 11,349 Views: 265,472
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sick of getting hurt |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2018, 11:10 am
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Replies: 98 Views: 2,011
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| When you're trash nobody wants, you don't get a date in the first place, ever. Awww :( I suppose at least I'm getting to interview stage. Yup, at least you get to try it out, he did show interest in you and whatever it was that made him change his mind maybe it's exactly why you wouldn't have worke... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ways of coping with your depression and building self esteem |
| katdances |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2018, 2:56 am
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Replies: 355 Views: 230,814
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| debt above a certain variable level is a compound stressor, it is like a sword of Damocles hanging over one's head. don't go into debt unless you have no other choice. I'm already in debt but it's nothing massive, even at that level I can't seem to make money to pay it out yet so maybe then just wa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Voices of ex-friends haunting me |
| katdances |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2018, 2:52 am
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Replies: 25 Views: 673
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| Marknis how old are you? I just would like to know. I recently lost two friends too and in my case not having their constant text messages was incredibly soothing. They were good friends for the most part but recently I just felt like they were too negative or too attacking when it came to something... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ways of coping with your depression and building self esteem |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2018, 2:28 am
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Replies: 355 Views: 230,814
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| debt above a certain variable level is a compound stressor, it is like a sword of Damocles hanging over one's head. don't go into debt unless you have no other choice. I'm already in debt but it's nothing massive, even at that level I can't seem to make money to pay it out yet so maybe then just wa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sunglasses all the time? |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2018, 2:25 am
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| Not all the time, but if a day is a little bit brighter than what's comfortable for me then sunglasses are appreciated. Sometimes I've forgot to carry them and it affected my mood during that day. Too bright a light can be annoying for me because of headaches or can make it hard to concentrate. It a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ways of coping with your depression and building self esteem |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2018, 2:15 am
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Replies: 355 Views: 230,814
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So if it's very likely that I'm going through depression (who knows for how long) and I've no money but I do have a credit card, maybe I should just reach out to a therapist and charge it to that? I'm already stressing about money right?  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| katdances |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2018, 2:10 am
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Replies: 9,562 Views: 734,407
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| The last few weeks have been just insanely difficult. I think that people don't take me seriously when I say that I'm autistic, or that I have Asperger's. Like they just will not believe that it's a thing that may really cause me difficulty or distress. Like I'm faking it, or exaggerating, or somet... |
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