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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Homecoming help please! |
| BigFrank |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2019, 9:08 pm
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| Hi all, I know it’s been a while since I’ve been on here. I’ve been very busy this past summer with my reporting stuff for my hockey radio program. School is starting tomorrow on the 26th for me and it is my senior year of high school. Unfortunately for an aspie like myself, the homecoming committee... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
| BigFrank |
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Posted: 28 May 2019, 2:20 pm
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Replies: 54
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| But I will try the small talking w the girl at work. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 28 May 2019, 2:19 pm
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Replies: 54
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| I get that but people tell me I’m ugly and stuff and I believe them and the girls are nasty and I just feel so hurt because it’s going to be four years this summer looking. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 28 May 2019, 12:24 pm
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Replies: 54
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| Hey guys just wanted to update you on my situation. School is at a lame duck phase where your grades are set because finals won’t impact them at all. Im interested in a girl at my job but idk how to talk with her because I want to be professional and keep my job. How do I do this? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 24 May 2019, 10:51 am
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Replies: 54
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| I get that I should focus on my studies and hobbies. However it just is so frustrating to see all my friends have the one thing I want: a relationship. I’m not just a crazy teenager I’ve been looking since Freshman year. Anybody from Chicago like me who knows like a youth group for aspies to hang out? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
| BigFrank |
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Posted: 23 May 2019, 2:25 pm
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Replies: 54
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| I get a lot of attention for my radio show because I have gotten hockey celebs on my show. I will hang at the mall but I don’t know how to flirt without being obvious. I can’t DJ bc of work. So how do I get into parties? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 23 May 2019, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 54
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Ok here’s what I have so far:
A successful hobby (Radio broadcasting)
A car
A job
Personality (Very outgoing, tenacious etc)
An education (I’m a junior in high school)
Am I missing anything?
Let me know, and also if you have any ideas where I could/should meet a girl OUTSIDE of school. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 23 May 2019, 12:03 pm
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Replies: 54
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| Exactly! College is for education first! I just am ambitious and school is easy and boring so there is no challenge. All I wanted in a girlfriend was companionship. But it’s true make the best of being “abnormal” I love being me with Aspergers and wouldn’t change it because it has helped me achieve ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 23 May 2019, 11:45 am
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Replies: 54
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| For me my diagnosis was empowering to know I because I knew at 12 I was more open with it and myself. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 23 May 2019, 11:43 am
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Replies: 54
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| That’s what people tell me about college. I just hope that this post isn’t my reality. I keep hoping and praying that it will work out. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 23 May 2019, 9:49 am
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Replies: 54
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Thank you guys for your help
I just try to stay positive but I’m surrounded by the things I want in life. I am super outgoing and I just some direction. Any tips on how to attract girls without being obvious? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 22 May 2019, 12:08 pm
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Replies: 54
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I get that. Being patient isn’t my strong suit and it hurts me to see my NT buddies get girlfriends.
How do they come to you? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 22 May 2019, 11:03 am
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Replies: 54
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| I just feel like I don’t belong on ether side of the fence. I’m a successful broadcaster but I can’t find someone for me. By psychologist tells me I’m mature like a 25 year old and it will be tough finding someone. I just feel like everything else is going right except my social stuff w girls. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 22 May 2019, 10:55 am
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Replies: 54
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| I get what you’re trying to say. It’s just frustrating when all your buddies have what you want. I just want someone to appreciate me for me. I don’t put it above family but I put it above everything else is trying to find someone. Could you list out some of those places you were talking about? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 22 May 2019, 10:43 am
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Replies: 54
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| I just having been looking for four years and it just stinks and have never had anything pan out. Really scared to have a lonely summer |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to be successful dating as an Aspie. |
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Posted: 22 May 2019, 10:38 am
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Replies: 54
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| But this is the problem I am mature beyond my years because I relate more to adults so I don’t have really anywhere I can go. Are there any like Aspergers conventions or other things? Just looking for someone real :-) I even had asked a celeb to homecoming and it nearly worked! I tried to do this bc... |
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