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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Think I Like Her TOO MUCH (please help) |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 18 May 2008, 9:19 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,747
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I would say you should impart you are enjoying your time together, it's the most fun you've had in a while and like where it is. You have plenty of time for both of you to find out for yourselves if this is what you both want.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: confidence |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 18 May 2008, 6:21 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,042
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| We are liked for our non-NT mannerisms, but we are engaged socially like an NT as soon as we infer attraction to someone. It's not our fault, this is conditioned from birth, barbie/ken and the endless consumerism, upgrade your SO with a new car, plastic surgery, a second home- etc. We are not mind c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is the AS trait you have that people find sexy? |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 18 May 2008, 6:12 pm
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Replies: 72
Views: 10,447
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| "I'm cute, funny, and really nice, but sometimes I think that you have to be a prick to get any women...you know, the whole confidence thing." My eyes, honesty, directness- being genuine. I can turn on my confidence on whim, yet prefer to pursue only those who interest me. It ain't no thang. We appe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love Triangle: How to break it? |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 16 May 2008, 7:48 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 4,580
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| It would be better for you to take it easy, you are probably not going to know them in 5 years. enjoy your time together, be honest and be you. Lust is hardly anything but fleeting. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: wtf. my co-workers keep telling me to get a girlfriend |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 16 May 2008, 7:39 pm
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Replies: 68
Views: 16,236
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37 y.o.
Its your duty to inform the nosy ones you're a back door man. Unhappy wives don't have to fuss much when they set their designs on you, you are naturally inclined to be helpful.  |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: 'oving delemmas |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2007, 1:57 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,109
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| Weed. I'm biased towards California, so take that into consideration. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspergers and Addiction |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2007, 3:10 pm
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Replies: 49
Views: 852
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| Was exposed to cannabis in middle school, liked its smell, decided it was the vise for me but waited until I was 23 to start on it. My Fathers side of the family would indicate a predisposition for addictivness- My grandfather and uncle are recovering alcoholics. I drank for a while (sometime heavil... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to do when... |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2007, 12:15 pm
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Replies: 60
Views: 5,408
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| ~integration of parts- am I the only one who might have noticed the double entendre? Or did I misinterpret? My Dad is part pun and ready to share them at any time, so I've been conditioned for them in conversation. (Ignore me while I'm doing this!! !) |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What Are Your Favourite Online Games? |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2007, 12:28 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 3,716
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Guild Wars great graphics and gameplay
IGN : Soulcrusher Mattias |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The "Why Doesn't He GIVE a s**t?" Post... |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2007, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 4,986
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| The AS side of me also requires that I explain why I/we need some affirmations in a relationship. I feel that since I'm missing the nuances of non-verbal communication, I'm missing all the little things that my other half let 's me know everything is fine, or could be better in a wink wink sorta way... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspergers and divorce |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2007, 10:46 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 7,681
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| There is no reason for you to blame yourself for her self destructive behavior. Many people who were abused sexually end up very discombobulated. She does need to get some counseling to address her molestation issues. The odds of her connecting with an abuser are better than with a nice/good/caring ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you have trouble piecing together sentences? |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2007, 9:58 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,072
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| A common experience for me, confusion due to a misunderstanding or interpretation of the request. I lost my last job due to an ingoramus that could not understand what I and my three previous managers told him about the task that was assigned to me. The mutton head refused to even attempt to underst... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: -Animal affinity |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2007, 2:26 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,285
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| i think its because animals know when some ting its not rigth about u and they come to say "its allrigth" this is of course just my opinion off this :) I have seen this in my own pets, and occasionally in others' pets. Usually I just assume we are more likely to be ourselves with animals, not prete... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: really great example of prejudice |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2007, 1:04 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,417
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| Your communications with them were literal- they couldn't accept that at face value. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: -Animal affinity |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2007, 12:26 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Is it easier for you to have contact and be be appreciated by someones pet? How many others have a natural ability to be accepted or liked by pets? Animals like me- I pay little or no attention to some ppl's pet,s (even neighbors') and they seem to seek my attention. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: AS generalizations that you've heard people talk about |
| MastaVR6 |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2007, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,333
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| Empathy is something NT's take for granted. It is unconscionable or IIMPOSSIBLE for them to not feel something. We are wired around such frivolity, just not with the same consistency, think alpha or beta software releases. I'm of the ilk that "tries to hard to please others"-almost like an obsessive... |
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