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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Were you in denial at first? |
| Allbymyself |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 2:49 pm
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Replies: 37
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| Yes when I was younger I hated any kind of psyche label and would take offense if you called me aspergers or anything else. It was not until I was about 33 did I finally get the autism because I found forums on line like wrong planet but mine was a different web site for aspergers and I started read... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Self-Care Difficulties |
| Allbymyself |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 2:38 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,174
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| Gosh I can relate to this topic big time. As fighting aganist time and not getting sidetracked is a huge problem in my life. I have trouble doing things. Like it took me a while to shower every day and comb my hair afterwards and things like wearing deodorant foriegn concept. I used to let my beard ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My parents want me to be in a group home or something |
| Allbymyself |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 2:21 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,049
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| The group homes and the day programs in cali where I used to live where degrading and awful places to live. I hated them. They took all but 100 bucks of your money so really had nothing and if you ever wanted to leave it would take them about a month to give you your disablity back so you can go ren... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: When people bring up my body language what do they expect? |
| Allbymyself |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,809
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| One of the things that popped up to me as I was reading this topic and the responses to the question was how it's funny that we misread other people's social cues and a they read our social cues. I remember when I used to go to alcoholics anonymous sometimes after a meeting there would be a guy outs... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: aspiehearts dating and friendship site (free) |
| Allbymyself |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 1:44 pm
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Replies: 56
Views: 2,989
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| Your website sucks and looks like it was put togther by new web designer and why the heck is a phone number required. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has your family rejected you because of your autism? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 1:40 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,884
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| I find the same thing as I have aged people expect more from me socially then when I was younger. I get in trouble a lot for the things I miss socially. Like over staying my welcome is a big one for me especially at businesses. But I have learned over the years people think because they can you shou... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has your family rejected you because of your autism? |
| Allbymyself |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 12:55 pm
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Replies: 36
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| Don't get me started on religion and autism that's a whole other topic. I remember once when I lived in Albuquerque for a couple of months I went to this Baptist Church cuz I really love God and the pastor went out of his way to avoid me whenever I would try to talk to him about anything in my life ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has your family rejected you because of your autism? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 11:00 am
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Replies: 36
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| I imagine that would be difficult to having an overprotective mother as well but at least it would feel better cuz you know she really loves you. But I can see it getting in the way of you wanting to do your own life when you're older. I don't think either one is healthy having an overprotective par... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has your family rejected you because of your autism? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 9:49 am
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Replies: 36
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| Being rejected by others is a whole other topic. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has your family rejected you because of your autism? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2019, 9:41 am
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Replies: 36
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| One of things that has big blow to my self esteem is that fact that I had a family I was never good enough for. A mother who always told me if I could act different she would want to be around me. No matter what I have gone threw they have always made clear that they are not there. I remember callin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have I wasted my life for not going to concerts ? |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2019, 9:13 am
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Replies: 54
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| To me personally concert seem like an awful time because you're packed in there like sardines can't really see much of anything if you didn't buy a really good tickets just to get me be a small little glimpse of your singer live singing the song that you like. No thank you I'd rather use YouTube for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: (Just for fun)Which WP Memebers Would Make An Ideal Couple? |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2019, 9:08 am
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Replies: 364
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| Me and reese Witherspoon. Anyone have her number? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Playing the victim |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2019, 7:12 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Often when i have had moments of clarity in my life it always points me back to the role of the victim in one way or another. The most common role of victim mentality in my life was my psychiatric diagnoses. They where reason for almost everything wrong in my life and my excuses for my bad behavior.... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Who likes washing machines? |
| Allbymyself |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2019, 12:32 am
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Replies: 21
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| When I read the title to this I was laughing because it was so Random not because I was making fun of you that's great if you like washing machine I just thought it was a random statement like who likes armpit hair. But I'm glad you found your passion and if that's what interests you go for it. Noth... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are they really your friend? |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2019, 8:09 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Hey thanks you old goat get it cuz you're screen name is mountain goat. Please don't take offense to that that's supposed to be a joke. I just private messaged you. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are they really your friend? |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2019, 5:17 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Hey when you try to make friends with other aspies did that ever work out for you? Because I sometimes wonder if it would be harder or to socially awkward people to make it work maybe it works better because you're both socially awkward and have some of the similar challenges. But I'm not sure |
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