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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What NT people say & what they really mean |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2020, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,845
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| This has been requested by a few posters. This is a list of common phrases of what the majority of NT people say and what they actually mean. Yes, I know that not all NTs are like this, but most are. The translations are literal. For slang, I recommend Urban Dictionary. “Hey” Translation: I’m acknow... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What NT Women Want |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2020, 4:48 pm
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Replies: 165
Views: 6,978
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| I’m an NT woman. This is not meant to be patronizing & no, I don’t think that all autistic men have neckbeards that don’t wash. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What NT Women Want |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2020, 4:08 pm
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Replies: 165
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| I read all the comments and appreciate the feedback. My post was about how to attract of the majority of NT women from the thoughts, attitudes, and behaviors of what I have seen and heard from myself, friends, and strangers. I know that there is a minority that are different, but I’m talking about t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do others tell me I am wrong about “bad boys”? |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2020, 11:00 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 3,316
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| Women want what other women want. Women see that other women want some man, and so they will want him as well. I think that others are telling you this to be nice and make you feel better. Some I think might even tell you this so that they don’t have to compete with you, hoping that you don’t do any... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What NT Women Want |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2020, 10:54 pm
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Replies: 165
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What NT Women Want |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2020, 10:51 pm
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Replies: 165
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| This is to help autistic men understand NT women. I’m going to be brutal and honest as possible because NT women are brutal when it comes to dating. Bookmark this page. I promise that if you do all of these steps, you will get at least one woman interested in you as a boyfriend or husband. Women mos... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2020, 10:14 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,287
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| I was just writing from an NT perspective, to try & help you understand how NTs see the world and process things. Okay, yeah I get what you’re saying about NTs being barbaric. Humor & slang & jokes, it’s how language evolves. Most NTs pick it up from their friends, relatives, or Tv &... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2020, 9:38 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,287
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I pay attention always, it is automatic.
Honestly I don’t know what I meant by that statement, but I guess it is unconscious. I don’t really care consciously. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2020, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 29
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Yeah, I care about social status somewhat.
I’m not sure. Reading body language is mostly unconscious. It lets me know how they’re feeling & what they feel about me or another person & whether they would be friendly to me, etc. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2020, 7:42 pm
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Replies: 29
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| I’m probably going to be a researcher. Yes, it is too late for me unfortunately. Yeah socializing is easy & effortless now and making eye contact is easy unless I’m lying or something. I am good at multi tasking and I like informal chit chat, although I think it is easier in general for female N... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2020, 8:15 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,287
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Oh, okay I am somewhat sensitive to light, but other than that I don’t have issues.
Yes, I think that is what brought me to researching autism more.
My major is biology, I’m not doing pre-med though.
Edit: I did have trouble making eye contact with people, but now I have no problem. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2020, 12:18 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,287
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| Have you ever joined in the bullying? No, I’ve never joined in on the bullying. I think that only immature & insecure NTs do that to make them feel better about themselves, because they’re just projecting their own feelings of shame & worthlessness into others & pick on people that they ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2020, 8:48 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,287
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| Practical jokes are played to get the person “in line” & conform with the rest, since the person is seen as either an outsider or weird. If they don’t conform, then they’ll continue to be subject to humiliation unless they change their behavior & try to conform more. Also, practical jokes ar... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: General Guide to NT Thinking |
| Tiana101 |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2020, 10:24 pm
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Replies: 29
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| Hi, I’m an NT and I would like to share a guide on how NT’s think. Most NTs think these to varying degrees for all of their waking life & I split it into categories to be more helpful. This is also mostly unconscious. Please let me know what you think & if you find it useful/helpful. General... |
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