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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Female AS traits--i found this list |
| Phoenix22 |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2009, 8:17 pm
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: list of female AS traits |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2009, 8:15 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie girl thinks she can only date another aspie, BUT |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2008, 1:40 pm
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| I'm a newly single aspie girl (woman actually) and I think only another aspie will understand me. BUT, I've already dated two. i have high intelligence, am well-travelled, have a smokin' hot bod and a pretty face. both my aspies got bored with me and treated me like garbage. I'm starting to think al... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you guys feel about your gf going out w/other guys? |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2008, 11:50 am
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| I know this sounds weird but my bf always said i should go out with other guys "just to have more friends". I said that would be leading them on, bcuz i was happy with him, but he insisted more friends are good. Do you think he was trying to give himself license to shop around, or would that just ta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie gal broken up with by aspie boyfriend...need advice |
| Phoenix22 |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 8:00 pm
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| thank you very much for your honesty. I feel a bit better. That sounds exactly like him, but whether he learns from experience the way you have remains to be seen. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie gal broken up with by aspie boyfriend...need advice |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 7:19 pm
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| this is really interesting to me. You sound a LOT like my ex. Why would yo do brutal things to avoid a breakup with her? Is it because you wanted to put the responsibiity on her shoulders? Did you have any guilt? (Mine does not. He seems very happy and is looking for a new girl. I think he wil have ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie gal broken up with by aspie boyfriend...need advice |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 7:08 pm
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| I appreciate your comments. I dont think girls "lead guys on" as much as you might think. More likely and I know from my guy, that his worst qualities came out at about two weeks into it. it shocked me and i broke up with him. but i really loved his good qualities, so i got back together with him an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie gal broken up with by aspie boyfriend...need advice |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 6:02 pm
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| i don't think i rate as an obsession for him any more, but thanks ;-) just a question, don't anybody bite my head off or anything: It seems to me that although aspie guys say they want love they don't really. they get bored and they want unattainble perfection. (forgive me for being blunt but i'm an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie gal broken up with by aspie boyfriend...need advice |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 3:23 pm
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| he wants me in winter when his landscaping work is done, but as soon as summer rolls around, it's the same old story, he gets restless. i raged for a long time but now i'm trying to forgive, because i think eventually he'll be the one to fall on his face. love is forever in my book, but i'm not taki... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| Phoenix22 |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 3:10 pm
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| I saw this post and we have so much in common, but you wrote it two years ago! We were both born april 1964 and we both broke up with our aspie bf's after 3 yrs. I am trying to understand mine though I had a lot of rage at first, like you. He also got on with his life "happy happy". did you ever mak... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie gal broken up with by aspie boyfriend...need advice |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 3:03 pm
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| Hi All -my first post. I am an aspie female whose aspie boyfriend of almost three years has a habit. when he tires of a girl, instead of breaking up with her he treats her so rotten she breaks up with him. Anyone else here do that? and why? |
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