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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: MOVING FROM ONE PLACE TO ANOTHER - HOW TO COPE? |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2009, 11:21 am
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| I would concentrate on maintaining whatever comfort zone you are able to keep. I don't know hpw to do that... I have my stuff with me... But what about the place? What about the people? I can't find my way of overcoming stress and anxiety. And panic attacks... Anyone can suggest something? I can't ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: MOVING FROM ONE PLACE TO ANOTHER - HOW TO COPE? |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2009, 10:20 am
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| So in the last eight months I moved three times. Now I have to move again... And it's so confusing and depressing... I feel like I am loosing another asylum. I can't cope with emotions which I have inside... Evertime I get used to some place or get attached to some people - I have to leave it and st... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspies and foreign marriages |
| ReGiFroFoLa |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2009, 2:18 am
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Yeh, I'm the living example here I now live in the UK, but I'm originally from central Europe. And I know quite a few of aspies around here; and they're lovely... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: EYE CONTACT: It Differes From Day To Day... |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2009, 4:43 am
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Yeh, I think it indeed might be the cause of my eye contact variations... Feeling comfortable or feeling stressed...
Oh well, I just can't tell; loads of things happen in me and around me and I am just sometimes unable to link them somehow together... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: EYE CONTACT: It Differes From Day To Day... |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2009, 4:28 am
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| ...Anyone else experiance it? I mean - sometimes I have problems with my eye contact and sometimes I don't. There are times that I don't make any eye contact ( I stare at the floor, mostly) or it's fleeting; and the other times I tend to stare at others... Is it just me, or is it quite common? |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: What Colour of Purple Are You? |
| ReGiFroFoLa |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2009, 2:36 am
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You Are Dark Purple
To others, you seem a bit dark, mysterious, and moody.
In truth, you are just a very unique person who doesn't care what others think.
And you really enjoy your offbeat interests and friends.
You've decided that life is about living for yourself - simple as that. |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: The Cultural Identity Test |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2009, 9:14 am
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| 42% Traditionalism, 62% Knowledge, 65% Diversity, 53% Contemporary and 58% Untraditionalism! You Scored 65% Liberal Philosopher , Congratulations! Diversity! Cultural awareness! Sharing! Caring! Congratulations, you're a liberal philosopher! Perhaps a bit bleeding heart at times, and maybe a little ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: HAVING AN AUTISTIC CHILD WRECKS YOUR LIFE!! by Carol Sarler |
| ReGiFroFoLa |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2009, 7:02 am
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| Yes, indeed - a child with autism may be wrecking life. Just as any other child with difficult character might. It all depends on how good will parent understand the child and its condition; and how much they really care about the child. Because - if parents concentrate only on their own misery, (eg... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Food and You |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2009, 4:14 am
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| Yeh, I love very spicy and sour foods. Plus - I eat very selectively. I can eat only one or two types of foods for weeks; and then I just can't take them anymore, and stick to another foods. For example - I recently was only eating yoghurts and cereals (all the time, even for dinner!); but then milk... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you remember your early childhood? |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2009, 4:07 am
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| I can't remember much. Only the fact that I didn't have any "friends" and that I never cared about the other children who were around me when I played. Also I always wanted things to be just the way I want. Everything had to be my way or no way. I was scared of cars' noise too. And I wasn't really c... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How could I organise my time? |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2009, 4:52 am
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| i occasionally get this feeling of emptiness.it gets very depressing then.i sometimes try removing the boredem by talking with people i like.you may also spend your time with your dear and near ones.you can get a hobby .then you will have wonderful time.you can also watch movie listen to your favou... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How could I organise my time? |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2009, 4:18 am
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| I personally would go for long bike rides if i had a bike in your situation. Or look up interesting/non-mainstream skilled hobbies e.g. Parkour? and just practice it, find a forum and develop a liking for it. It would be great for exercise and give me something to look forward too each day and kill... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How could I organise my time? |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2009, 4:01 am
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| So, yesterday it's been another day spent all alone in my room. I live in a small village and there isn't even a place here to go for walk... So I'm stuck at home. And it's really depressing... How other people with asperger's manage this? How could I get rid of those feelings of emptines? I don't w... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Book review - HOW TO BE YOURSELF IN A WORLD THAT'S DIFFERENT |
| ReGiFroFoLa |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2009, 2:48 am
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| Yeh I have this book and red it a couple of times. Loads of advices in it and strategies; and all of it is just something I perfectly realise but can't change at the moment... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate myself! |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2009, 8:49 am
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| It is common in aspies to behave like that, so You don't have to hate Yourself. Or mabye You are depressed? When I was 13 I was highly depressed over my poor social skills and inability to interact with others and about the fact that I have no purpose in my life ( I didnt know about aspergers back t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Sensory things that drive you nuts that no one else gets... |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2009, 8:44 am
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| Yeh, Im very sensitive to sounds and lights... Sometimes the slightest sounds irritate me. I can't stand buzzing radiator or lamp. And it kills me the sound that is made by phone charger... Also telly is sometimes hurting my eyes, sso I don't watch it very often... |
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