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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to do in this situation ? |
| Bullwinkle |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 6
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| I've never met you so its kinda hard to know where to start. Saying that, its going to fall on you to figure it out. You need to take a careful (but never condemning) look at yourself and figure out what you need to improve *not* to seem awkward. Tricks and avoidances are only going to delay the wor... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bullied by neighbours at 5:30am |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 6:45 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,549
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Wonderful! I would try looking into this man's site/TV shows
http://www.cesarmillaninc.com/dogwhisperer/
He might help you understand your dog better, and in the process help you with people. I'm guessing your dog felt proud to have the sidewalk to its own, and proud of you too. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bullied by neighbours at 5:30am |
| Bullwinkle |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 6:34 am
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| If you only build walls to protect yourself, sooner or later they become the cage that binds your heart into a small place that no light can find. Yes its true that there are many 'bad' people out there but many are just confused and lonely just like you and just don't know how to live in peace. We ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bullied by neighbours at 5:30am |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 6:21 am
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| As for standing up to them, it doesn't have to be a fight. The sidewalk is just as much yours as theirs. DONT run off into the grass, just walk down the center of the sidewalk. If the mean lady wants to, let her ask for the right to pass. Its only fair. Yes it may mean a scuffle with her dogs but yo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bullied by neighbours at 5:30am |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 6:17 am
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| You aren't wrong love, you are just being bullied by people who don't care about you. Its hard for me to say, but I think part of the problem is you thinking everyone else are aliens. In a strange sense, the world becomes what you see it to be. Even if everyone seems against you, you need to find so... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bullied by neighbours at 5:30am |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 5:25 am
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Replies: 21
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| Frankly, a restraining order against what? Going "Myoom, myoom, myoom?" A judge would laugh this out of court, and probably join in with the mocker in condemning the poor victim. The only way to stop a bully is to stand up to them. Dogs respect only power. And sadly, many people are little better th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bullied by neighbours at 5:30am |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 5:15 am
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| We've got nothing to fear...but fear itself? Not pain, not failure, not fatal tragedy? Not the faulty units in this mad machinery? Not the broken contacts in emotional chemistry? With an iron fist in a velvet glove We are sheltered under the gun In the glory game on the power train Thy kingdom's wil... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bullied by neighbours at 5:30am |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 5:06 am
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| The vampires feed off your fear, do not allow them their meal. Only then will they lose interest. Worse yet, the dogs understand this far better than we; they attack any weaknesses. They can smell it, and they egg on their 'masters'. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: a poem of justice |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 4:58 am
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Replies: 2
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| I like your poem a lot, but revenge is not always just. If anything, it tends to boomerang. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Weird feelings after movies? |
| Bullwinkle |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 4:33 am
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Replies: 24
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| I kind of have a weird thing with movies and I was wondering if anyone else does this too. After I get out from seeing a movie (particularly in theaters but can happen if I rent one too) I feel all weird and shaky and I will shiver and my teeth chatter and I feel kind of nauseous. Also, I seem to m... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Any Suggestions For A Geography-Related Job For An Aspie? |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 4:07 am
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Replies: 13
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| Wow, sounds all too familiar, the tiring, the grind of even working 37 hours. I've often felt the exact same way. Its even worse when I talk to people who think nothing of working 60 hours a week let alone 40. Sad fact is, there's no real fix for this, at least that I've found. My best advice is ver... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: No more will, no more energy |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 3:53 am
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Replies: 66
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| I have an idea of what I want my life to be like, and I am worried that if it can never be like that, it can't be enjoyable. There's the rub. Once you solve that issue, all those other concerns are minor. Do I have an easy solution for that....no. I would however, recommend trying the green eggs an... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "For Dummies" books... Any good? |
| Bullwinkle |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 3:41 am
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Replies: 14
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| If you find them a good tool, then that's what they are for you. You don't need anyone else to tell you one way or another. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: burps taste of eggs or something |
| Bullwinkle |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 3:39 am
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| Offhand I'd guess your body is unable to properly metabolize that protein due to lack of the proper enzyme. You have a few options: keep consuming it in the hopes your body learns to produce said enzyme (humans are very adaptable), quit taking the supplement, somehow find something that will allow y... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: What should I say? |
| Bullwinkle |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 3:35 am
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Replies: 3
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| You pretty much answered your own question. You made a decision that you felt you needed to in order to preserve your own mental well being. As a responsible person, what else should you do? Tell him the truth, might actually be just what the guy needs to hear, and if not, you're not his momma. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: And he pities me! |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2009, 3:23 am
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Replies: 3
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| A few weeks ago, a very close friend of mine commented on the purely trivial detail that the sequence of hour and date that was expressed as 04:05:06 07/08/09 was never to occur again. It was a common meme during those days, and he subscribed to the notion that that apparently unique sequence made ... |
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