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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Far Have We Fallen |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2009, 2:14 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Yeah, OP....I don't know...maybe the search for a significant other is part of some greater developmental process. It could be neediness, I suppose...could be determination? I guess it all depends on the seeker's motivation, and the sacrifices the person is willing to make. There is something about... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: I need to get out this rant about Wal-Mart |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2009, 2:09 pm
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Replies: 49
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| Well this is how I see, I've been to Walmart a couple of times. When I have no option: Walmart is the lower Target, but Target is the lower version of Sears Mervyns was the lower version of Kohls, but now Mervyns is out of business. I mean I don't want to be offensive to anyones wealth or anything. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Far Have We Fallen |
| TheCynicalSun |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2009, 12:00 am
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Replies: 16
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| OP, I used to be like the people you're talking about on this site, wanting one person to complete me, yada yada yada. My reasons for wanting a girlfriend now are completely different. Like you, I've come to the conclusion that only I really truly know myself, and my family knows me very well too f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Far Have We Fallen |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 16
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| OP, my impression is that AS can make some people feel very socially isolated, so some Aspies place a premium on finding that one special person they can relate to, that will understand and accept them, and ultimately, love them. I think most NTs would like someone special to share the journey with... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you ever talk to yourself? |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 9:53 pm
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Replies: 76
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| Well I write stories. And when I'm writing I create voices for my characters. So in the end I'm having conversations with my fictional imaginary characters. I mean it makes sense and it seems normal. But embarrassingly enough people look at you when you do it. I really don't see why. I also tend to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Far Have We Fallen |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 5:55 pm
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Replies: 16
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ManErg wrote: Well, you decided to share your joy at being alone with a whole bunch of people  Takes other people to listen.
I'm just expressing how it becomes almost annoying that people are begging for love.
I have the impulse to say stuff. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Far Have We Fallen |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 3:07 pm
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| Honestly I mean nothing by this, but I feel in some sort of way people are sorta desperate to find a soul mate. How far have we fallen where we are searching every corner for someone? I mean, I'm not the most social person. I'm extremely introverted and barely let anyone get to know me. I'm extremel... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: When you crossdress what do you like to wear? |
| TheCynicalSun |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 1:00 am
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Replies: 49
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| First off thank you for being the first person to post something even slightly related to the topic. Yeah I try to shave at least once a day when I'm crossdressing. I really want to get all my facial hair removed with lasers or electrolysis since I hate it to begin with and it just is a pain to kee... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: When you crossdress what do you like to wear? |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 12:51 am
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| I went through a period of sexual identity crisis. I will tell you this I was very glamor. So glamor someone I knew saw the pictures of me and said that I was a very hot girl. I haven't told them to this day that was me. I use to wear kind of the gothic clothes. Stuff from hot topic. The little plai... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "Normal" people are stupid... |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 12:48 am
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Replies: 64
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| Most cases. People are looking for immediate gratification in a conversation. As well they are only thinking of the social endeavors. They do not think about the intellectual endeavors much. By immediate gratification, I mean to agree with them so they feel satisifed and good about themselves. By so... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Are gamers just RUDE in general??! !! |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 12:39 am
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Replies: 28
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| I think most people are rude the most on Online games. I think the sense of hiding behind anonymous paper bag gives them a sort of power and right that they are better then other people. I wish people on Online games were a lot more respectful. But I guess a lot of rude gamers are there, is because ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Not Sure |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 12:24 am
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Replies: 11
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| Thank you for the welcomes. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Talking |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 12:22 am
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Replies: 4
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| I would imagine most Aspie's can relate to this - when people have treated you badly and stabbed you in the back so many times it's no wonder you find it hard if not impossible to trust people. What I do is give them 2 strikes and their out, if they do something nasty once and apologize for it they... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Not Sure |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2009, 12:02 am
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Replies: 11
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| Thank you Tim for welcoming me. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Talking |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2009, 12:01 am
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Replies: 4
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| I had always had an issue with people emotionally manipulating me. They haven't been directly nice to me. And since from K-12, I have been ignored, isolated, and never really fit. I feel awkward around people who are nice to me. Right now there is this girl who is being nice to me, she's being sweet... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Not Sure |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2009, 11:47 pm
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Replies: 11
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I'm not sure if I should say Hey or Hi.
But, um...hi, I'm TheCynicalSun.
It feels weird saying hello and even registering on this board, when I don't have autism.
My cousin does.
But I don't have autism.
So I'm a little out of place. |
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