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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friendship Board - Ages 15 through 18 |
| DragonDamsel |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2010, 6:49 am
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Replies: 576
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| I am, for a lack of better word, boring. Due to depression, my interest in life is non existent. While I'm no longer depressed, I still got no zeal for life. I don't have any special interest/obession that would make good conversation, and like many aspies I'm socially inept. sounds like me?haha :D... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I don't have a heart. Is it possible for me to get one? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 9:04 pm
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Replies: 24
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| I don't know if this applies to your situation, but I find that I have a hard time feeling emotions directly. When people I know have died, I rarely feel much of anything. I guess it's just a self preservation reaction. When people get very emotional around me, I either try to get away or I become ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I don't have a heart. Is it possible for me to get one? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2010, 5:20 am
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| Thank you for all replies. They give me some directions when I have no idea where to go. And yeah, I wish I could ask the wizard of Oz for a nice heart too. If only it was that easy. I tried apologizing to my parents today and I had no idea if it's effective or not. I fail at reading people. From wh... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I don't have a heart. Is it possible for me to get one? |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2010, 6:06 am
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| Just came by to see if I can give you some sort of advice /support I won't go into the details, but here's the crux of the matter: I broke my parents' hearts today May I ask why you just letted me expend an hour talking about nonsense when you have important issues that are worrying you?. Im not ma... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Growing discontent for society |
| DragonDamsel |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2010, 5:32 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,337
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| Go on a vacation, that should fulfilled your desire for adventure for now. You don't have to decide where you want to go right away. Take a vacation there and see how you like it first. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I don't have a heart. Is it possible for me to get one? |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2010, 3:50 am
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Replies: 24
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| I won't go into the details, but here's the crux of the matter: I broke my parents' hearts today Intellectually, I realize that I'm a loser, a monster, an a**hole, cold, wrong, bad, horrible, selfish, ungrateful, unfilial and many other adjective that I don't know of. Emotionally, I don't feel a thi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does your handwriting look childish? |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2010, 3:42 am
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Replies: 34
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| My handwriting, when it come to block letters have always been legible and childish. Cursive on the other hand, is a nightmare. I could hardly even read what I wrote. You're not the only one who wish that their handwriting will stop looking like it belong to an elementary student. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Toxic respite provider |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2010, 7:53 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 847
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| Is it possible for you to just ignore her? Just give her a nod of acknowledgement when you met, but have nothing else to do with her. Don't even try to be cordial and said hello. She obviously want nothing at all to do with you. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What is society? Why should we give a damn? |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2010, 7:39 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,723
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| Unless you are independently wealthy, you need a job. To get a job you need the social skills to demonstrate to a potential employer that you have what it takes to make a positive contribution to that employer's workplace. Unless you are planning to hold an entry level job until retirement, you are... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What is society? Why should we give a damn? |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2010, 10:23 am
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Replies: 13
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| Define being part of society. I think we have different definitions of that. From what I know, being part of society mean having 'friends'. Chances are, if I'm going to have any I would have to play pretend to be normal. Not fun. When I work, I'll probably have colleague, but I don't have to interac... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What is society? Why should we give a damn? |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2010, 9:17 am
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Replies: 13
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| I am aware that in our current ways of life, we're all pretty much dependent on other for necessary commodity. That doesn't explain about being part of society part. To get those things the only things I need are a job and probably living somewhere in the city. It's not like I have swear to become a... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What is society? Why should we give a damn? |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2010, 3:52 am
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| What exactly is society? It never did anything for me or others who really need help. All it did is demand, expect and condemn. Why should I care about it? Why should I want to be part of something like that? I feel you SO hard on this one. Yesterday I had this conversation about society, my family... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What is society? Why should we give a damn? |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2010, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 13
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| My parents wouldn't stop pestering me about 'living in society', 'functioning in society' and 'being part of society'. What's this society thing they keep going on and on about? I guess that mean they want me to have more relationships and act more like a normal person what ever that is, but I can't... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Please give me some advice |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 3:34 am
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Replies: 6
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| Thank you for letting me know that it's a scam. Now I can stop wasting time and energy, thinking of the correct way to tell someone you can't help them. BTW, if I shouldn't received offers of friendship from complete strangers and any PM I sent to strangers will be seen as scam. Exactly, how do I go... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Please give me some advice |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 1:04 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 820
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| On the other side of the world type. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Please give me some advice |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 12:57 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 820
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| Someone has contacted me through PM and ask to be my friend, we exchanged two emails, and then this person want me to help them in real life. Basically, they want me to help them get out of the country they currently reside in and settle down in my country permanently with my help. While money is no... |
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