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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Any other trans* neurodiverse people? |
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Posted: 22 May 2012, 6:15 am
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| Hey, your project sounds fun. I may be interested in helping out. Anyhow, I'm female but was born with with male chromosomes, but I'm on hormones and so things are good for me in that regard at the moment. Also an aspie, gay, ADD/anxiety/depression. I like to make art, write, compose/play music, and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If it turned out your partner was transsexual... |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2011, 10:18 pm
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Replies: 213
Views: 23,566
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| I'd almost care about everyone's opinions on here but I never date: People who would ever even consider having children (we have more important things to do) People who would ever even consider getting married (what a farce!) People who have their heads stuck in binary gender roles (who cares? be wh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If it turned out your partner was transsexual... |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2011, 11:16 pm
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Replies: 213
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| Wow, I can't believe the attitudes on here. If someone presents as a woman, they ARE a woman, not a 'man'. There is also sex and gender, they are separate things. As someone who is transgender myself, it's kind of painful to see so many of you dismissing trans people as being 'dishonest' somehow. No... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Question about LGBT, ASD and working |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2011, 11:05 pm
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Replies: 7
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aybabtu__ wrote: I'm disabled and cannot work.
Care to elaborate? |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Question about LGBT, ASD and working |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2011, 12:54 am
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| Well, here is my take. I'm a transitioning transwoman/genderqueer lesbian (or at least, I'm attracted primarily to females and consider myself mostly female) who is a posterchild for AS. I'm nearly 30 and after spending my early to mid 20s unemployed or working short-term crappy jobs, I became a fre... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Genderqueer, Androgyne, Bigender |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2011, 4:31 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 21,473
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| Gender really is funny in a lot of ways. So many names and terms and stereotypes, yet, for a lot of people your gender is just as unique as you are. I think that a lot of issues people have could be attributed to a society that views gender as a binary thing, a serious thing, and a bit of a taboo th... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Male lesbian, guydyke? |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2011, 11:59 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 87,627
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| Straight men who like lesbians? Straight women who like gay men? This is madness! Next you'll be telling me that bananas are yellow. ^This Straight men are turned on by lesbians all the time. This just means you're a normal guy. There is a HUGE difference between the attraction to lesbians that str... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: My Aspie Son (5 years old) says he wants to be a girl. |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2011, 3:02 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 18,046
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| You mean your 5 year old aspie daughter? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is sniffing considered rude? |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2011, 2:58 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Oh, I thought you meant sniffing like smelling. I smell a lot of things, more than is really natural. So sometimes I'll get a whiff of something really interesting and do a little sniffing around. I'm a bit like a bloodhound in that way. People around me then worry that I'm smelling something bad on... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A girl I met online in person and the aftermath |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2011, 12:52 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I'm going to have to go with "it's over" on this one. If I have this girl pegged right, nothing will make her more attracted to you than if you ignore her and move on. I personally don't think you should even bother. She seems really immature and dishonest and gets involved with weird guys. And for ... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Do "Straight", "Gay", and "Bisexual |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2011, 4:52 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 4,993
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| NOPE! Those labels are just convenient terms for the most extreme ends of a very 1-dimensional spectrum. It's the same with gender (there's way more to that than 'male' or 'female'), sexual desires (sexual, asexual, demisexual), and orientation. For instance, I'm fluid in my gender and am lately fin... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay lesbian dating |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2011, 4:39 am
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Replies: 2
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| It so depends. I didn't even find out I was an aspie until I was 29 and so it was pretty infeasible for me to make any of my dates or whatevers aware of that fact. If they're NT especially (which they probably are or you two would've done double-hand clap giddy dances and LOL'd out over how fun fun ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does anyone else have trouble dumping people |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2011, 2:06 am
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Replies: 38
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| Wow, I'm seeing a lot of other problems here that you would be better off addressing before trying to figure out a good method to breaking off a relationship with someone. I'm not going to rant on this topic but, and this may come as a shock to you, there are plenty of ridiculously intelligent and a... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: I've been trying to figure things out for a while.... |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2011, 1:14 am
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Replies: 8
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| Yeah, my first thought was that you were asexual, but then you mentioned the women. Jonsi lays out some options. There is a lot more to sexuality and gender and relationships and such than gay/straight/bi. Way more. If your journey is anything like mine, you may end up thinking you're one thing, the... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: An Open Question To Anti-Gays: What Is Wrong With It? |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2011, 9:40 pm
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Replies: 83
Views: 13,509
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Yeah, you're really not going to find what you're looking for here.
You should go and ask this question some socially-conservative leaning forum. It's not as though there's a shortage of that sort of thing online. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My girlfriend thinks she might be pregnant? |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2011, 2:34 pm
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Replies: 78
Views: 18,313
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| She thinks she might be pregnant because she missed her period, and I pretty sure I witnessed semen leak out of the condom during the intercorse, as there was not alot of semen in the condom, like, barely anything, but I felt a big load coming out. (I came inside her while wearing the condom.) If t... |
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