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Forum: School and College Life Topic: First day of school |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2015, 11:11 am
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good luck! it's my first day as well and my first class is one whose political beliefs are the exact opposite of mine.
hopefully i can fake it for the grade, but i tend to be outspoken.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's been a year... |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2015, 12:02 pm
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| Damn... that's such a long time to live with such unpleasantness... I want a new relationship, and I've been actively seeking one, but I'm unfortunately terribly uninterested in most of the people I've spoken to. I'm not picky re: looks, but a lot of the time I just find myself very bored with their... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's been a year... |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2015, 6:24 pm
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| I don't know... I have more friends now than I've ever had in my entire life (I'm 24), I'm incredibly successful in both my school and work that I both love, but there's this crippling unexplainable despair that overcomes me when I see her or think about her... I want it to be over. I know she's mo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's been a year... |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2015, 6:02 pm
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| I don't know... I have more friends now than I've ever had in my entire life (I'm 24), I'm incredibly successful in both my school and work that I both love, but there's this crippling unexplainable despair that overcomes me when I see her or think about her... I want it to be over. I know she's mov... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's been a year... |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2015, 2:01 pm
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| My ex of 5.5 years broke up with me a little over a year ago and I still feel like I'm not over it... She was my first, and although I've recovered significantly compared to when it first occurred, I'm still triggered with depression and anxiety whenever I see her around, which, unfortunately, is qu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 7:57 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 3,664
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| :) You've been great! Simply knowing it's not permanent has boosted my self-esteem dramatically, I've felt a ton more confident about myself and my relationship since last Friday, a lot of little things that'd make me feel insecure either haven't, or haven't been hitting me with even a fraction of t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 3:52 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 3,664
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| According to GoodTherapy.org there aren't any therapists within 100 miles of my city that deal with AS specifically.. I've been feeling slightly better lately, about as good as I can imagine while still living with my family.. are there any other options or should I try a regular therapist? I've bee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2011, 10:34 pm
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Replies: 19 Views: 3,664
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| So therapy is a worthwhile investment? I've considered it but always assumed it wouldn't work or whatever... I'm surprisingly aware of most of the advice I've been given, I know that I'm an amazing person... I'm incredibly intelligent, funny, eclectic, and apparently I'm quite unique as well. I'm al... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2011, 1:01 pm
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| Yeah, you're right... things have actually progressively gotten better over the past few years, so I'm not too sure why I'm always afraid. I think I've just got some issues that need to be worked out internally, and she has some as well. Everyone has baggage, and I'm honestly just happy to know ONE ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2011, 12:28 pm
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Replies: 19 Views: 3,664
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| I think my insecurity stems from my household, childhood and previous romantic experiences. I was never truly loved growing up, I was always being called a failure, loser, and other s**t like that. So, despite her considering me a "perfect partner" I'm always afraid of not being good enough, because... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2011, 6:06 pm
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Replies: 19 Views: 3,664
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| She prefers isolation when she's upset or angry, and I prefer communication. The usual argument is over a misunderstanding through speech, I'll read something literally or say something that I understand completely but she'll interpret my comment in a completely different manner. We'll go a few hour... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2011, 4:37 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 3,664
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| Random misunderstandings, I'll read or interpret common sayings and whatnot literally which can be pretty frustrating for her, and we both approach arguments in a completely different manner, as well... which can turn a stupid little fight into something gigantic. I have been completely myself with ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long-term relationship |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2011, 4:10 am
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| So, I've been dating an amazing NT girl for nearly 2.5 years now, and although she scored an 100/200 on that silly online quiz compared to my 150/200, I'm worried that things won't stay great forever. We'll argue every once in awhile due to misunderstandings, but I'm afraid that things might be doom... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: What should I watch next? =) |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2011, 3:40 am
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| Hello everyone, I'm on medical leave at the moment and I have a ton of free time so I need some entertainment, which tv shows should I watch next? It'd be nice to get some input from some other aspies. :) Here's what I've seen so far... 30 Rock An Idiot Abroad Arrested Development Better Off Ted Bor... |
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