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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Age differences |
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Posted: 24 May 2012, 7:21 am
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Replies: 7
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I live in the UK, so she's not in high school, not technically a minor, but she can't drink yet
Thanks for the advice guys. Thinking about it, I had a relationship with a 17 year old last year when I was 20, so it shouldn't make a huge difference really, should it? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Age differences |
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Posted: 23 May 2012, 9:45 pm
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Replies: 7
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| I met a girl on a dating site a few weeks ago and we've been hitting it off really well. I really like her and have been considering asking her to meet up for the last week or so. Something that gave me pause for thought though is that she's just revealed to me that instead of being 18, like it says... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: EMERGENCY help needed please |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2012, 7:45 pm
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Replies: 69
Views: 11,850
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| Longshanks is right. If you represent yourself, unless you're a qualified solicitor, the courts won't take you seriously, no matter how carefully you prepare your case. If money's an issue, then you need to look around for a solicitors who are willing to offer legal aid. If communicating with the th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need advice on girl I like |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2012, 2:56 pm
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Replies: 7
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| What is she like with you? I'd spend a bit more time with her first. She's random and hyper and seems quite confident around me, so it show's she's comfortable around me. That was kind of my plan, to hang around with and talk to her more, then try and gauge whether or not it's a good idea to ask he... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need advice on girl I like |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2012, 12:19 pm
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Replies: 7
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| I don't know, having never asked her. She seems to have a few Aspie traits, although I'm only going off what I recognize from myself. She's incredibly shy around new people, or even people she knows, but not very well. But then when she's with people she knows well she frequently gets hyper and over... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are you still single ( one reason) |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2012, 12:08 pm
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Replies: 563
Views: 65,725
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| Simply put: because I have AS. Explanation. Because I have AS, I lack the social skills and confidence to flirt with girls I like, or spend months liking a girl who doesn't like me back. Also, all my friends are NT's with very little understanding of how an Aspies mind works, so when they try to giv... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need advice on girl I like |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2012, 11:51 am
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Replies: 7
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| Well it's happened again. I've found a girl I really like and I don't know what to do. None of my friends understand the dilemmas and problems my AS puts me through so I'll turn to you. If i run you through my situation, hopefully someone can help I kind of liked this girl back in college, but I'm n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How many of you are on OKcupid? |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2012, 2:47 pm
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Replies: 603
Views: 66,330
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I was on there a while back, lost heart, cancelled my account. Then I decided to give it another go a few weeks ago.
My username's Richard1565, if anyone's interested |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sensory issues during sex |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2012, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 448
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I find it difficult when a girls lips are touching my body, no matter where it is. Sometimes even just her hands, but that doesn't happen often
Also, when she's on top, i feel like I've lost control, which i find hard to deal with. We solved that problem by me becoming the dominant one |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Songs to have sex to. |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2012, 7:05 pm
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Replies: 167
Views: 2,810
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I second NIN's Closer, makes things really wild, but I'm into some kinky stuff
Another is Rhianna's S&M
Closer is also good for girls to strip to, moving on to a lapdance. Possibly one of the sexiest experiences of my life |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Looking for interviewees |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2012, 6:59 pm
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Replies: 1
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| Hi, I'm writing a piece for my journalism module at uni on the cuts to disability benefit in the uk and 'demonisation' of disability and looking for some people to interview who have had first hand experience I'm interested in people with Higher Functioning AS and Autism who claim DLA, particularly ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Feeling Lonely, Confused and Depressed |
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Posted: 12 Feb 2012, 10:00 pm
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Replies: 7
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| Thanks :) I've been trying to follow that advice, but it's hard for me because a huge worry I've always had is that noone would be interested in me because of my AS, a worry that's got even worse since the break-up. Joining WP has helped me hugely in that regard though. It's helped me understand my ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Undressing for the first time in front of someone. |
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Posted: 12 Feb 2012, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 17
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| I'm comfortable with it normally, even though I worry about my body and how it looks the rest of the time. Think it's like Atomsk said, by the time I'm comfortable enough to be fooling around with someone, I'm so comfortable around them it doesn't matter |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The Hot Aspies Pictures and Chat Room |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2012, 5:18 am
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Replies: 27,161
Views: 321,587
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This is me...
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The Hot Aspies Pictures and Chat Room |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2012, 5:00 pm
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Replies: 27,161
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| Found t-shirt at 2nd hand store for 99 cents. http://i1216.photobucket.com/albums/dd378/randompicnim/2012-02-07205942.jpg Thought of Emlion. That design is so cool! Wish I was comfortable enough to get one myself. I want one! I'd feel self-conscious as hell wearing it, but that's too awesome not to... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2012, 3:27 pm
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Replies: 881
Views: 18,699
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| I'm Richard, I'm a 21yr old student, studying for a degree in Writing and Film Studies (I hope to be a Screenwriter one day) at Anglia Ruskin in Cambridge I consider myself a huge geek. I do a lot of Wargaming in my spare time, I enjoy building painting and gaming with the models, as well as the wor... |
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